borderline_life Posted July 15, 2006 Posted July 15, 2006 My love of two years left for a visit to see his family and it was almost time for him to come back he said to buy the ticket and I did..a week in advance in grandma came in from out of town unexpectedly and he asked for a week longer but I said no because I cant change the ticket...He broke up with me and wont talk to me and hasnt for four days except for a few times he has become this beast I never thought he could be...We were supposed to get married we've lived together for 2 years and now he wont even speak to me I feel like I've been trapped in a nightmare it all feel so unreal to me...I just dont understand.How can someone rip somones heart out and not even blink?
norajane Posted July 16, 2006 Posted July 16, 2006 He broke up with you over a plane ticket? Why didn't he buy it himself if it was so important?
Author borderline_life Posted July 16, 2006 Author Posted July 16, 2006 I paid for his bus ticket so that he wouldnt have to work while he was there so he could come home sooner...He was supposed to leave in 4 hours and I have yet to even talk to him. The ticket hasnt been picked up. I dont know if he' staying longer or not coming home at all. I dont know anything and I'm barely hanging on at all anymore.
norajane Posted July 16, 2006 Posted July 16, 2006 So, basically, you're paying for his trip so he doesn't have to work...and he has the gall to get pissed off at you for doing so, breaks up with you, and won't communicate with you...despite being in a relationship with you for two YEARS. YOU should be the one who's pissed off.
Author borderline_life Posted July 16, 2006 Author Posted July 16, 2006 I dont know what you mean what else do I pay for? I pay for alot of stuff because I was unaware at the time that it might be a waste of my money! and in response to the lady bug one....I know I should be angry but I can't be I dont know I guess I'm a little bit of everything but mostly confused and hurt...I love him and I hate the thought that this may be it....I cant deal with that!
norajane Posted July 16, 2006 Posted July 16, 2006 I dont know what you mean what else do I pay for? I pay for alot of stuff because I was unaware at the time that it might be a waste of my money! and in response to the lady bug one....I know I should be angry but I can't be I dont know I guess I'm a little bit of everything but mostly confused and hurt...I love him and I hate the thought that this may be it....I cant deal with that! I think he was wondering if this guy was using you...sponging off you...with a spoiled, selfish sense of entitlement - like he expected you were supposed to pay his way instead of it being a kindness on your part, expected it to the point he demanded it from you...because that's certainly what it sounds like. Of course you're confused and hurt. But, trust me, the anger will come, and when it does, embrace it for it will help you get over this jerk. You really can do a lot better than a guy who treats you like this.
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