BatteredByLove Posted July 15, 2006 Posted July 15, 2006 Short and simple guys, my ex broke up with me on March 22nd, after that we talked till the end of may where we actually broke off all contact, no contact. We didnt end in very good terms, I told her I hated her for being stubborn because she would tell me that I'm perfect for her and all, and yet, we weren't going out. Well she told me not to call her and everything will be okay. I did NC for a month, went to her hosue, she saw me, got pissed, didnt say a word and ewnt back in. Two weeks later, she emails me, trying to "reconcile", and to be friends. Well we talked a lil, and I told her that I'd be there for her when she needed me, that I'll b a shoulder for her to cry on, someone to sympathize with. She returned my email by telling me to not expect much of her that she's not sure if she wants to be friends with me... this is a few days after she said wanting to be friends. Have any of you guys have any incidents like this? I want to be there for her, not as a bf, but as anyone that can watch out and be there for her when she needs me, that's all. I don't know what's going through her mind, so if any of you guys have any experience, girls or guys, any advice is good. --T
superconductor Posted July 15, 2006 Posted July 15, 2006 She's either playing you for a sap or she's truly farked up. Either way, keep your distance. NC all the way. It's very noble of you to want to be her saviour or therapist, but that's not your job. Your job is to get on with your life by maintaining NC, which will also allow her to get on with her life.
Author BatteredByLove Posted July 16, 2006 Author Posted July 16, 2006 I know NC is the best all the way, and somehow I moved on a bit with NC with her but when she contacted me again, back to square 1. The first time she contacted me, i waited 5 days before replying, just short and simple replies, then one day she just popped out asking me was I feeling weird talking to her. I replied no, and then we started talking again, casually, then she went into that "friend" topic, and so on. It's probably her, all my friends tell me that she's too immature and stubborn, but I can't get her out of my head. The phrase "Love is Blind" sure exists in this situation.
Author BatteredByLove Posted July 17, 2006 Author Posted July 17, 2006 Well, I'm strictly going back to NC, she hasnt replied to my latest email, I don't know if I'll read it or not when she replies....
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