Diver012 Posted July 15, 2006 Posted July 15, 2006 What do you miss most? The person you were in a relationship with? Being in a relationship to begin with? The way that person made you feel while in the relationship? A combination of things? Just Wondering how other people feel. I miss the kindess and scencerity she showed me. I dont miss the Ice Cold nature in how she treated me when we broke up, or afterwards. I miss spending time with someone I cared about. Im glad that it ended when it did because I dont miss the times when she started critizing me towards the end. I look forward to the day when I will meet someone that has the strength and character to stay in a relationship, and follow through on the promises that were made between 2 people in love. A person that will not run and Hide. Wont get scared... A person that will love me, for me.
johan Posted July 15, 2006 Posted July 15, 2006 To be honest, lately I miss how I felt most. I do miss her, but she was a pain in the ass in a lot of ways. I'm not sure that relationship was good enough. But I miss me more. It's stupid.
Ruff Ryder Posted July 15, 2006 Posted July 15, 2006 Funny thing is I miss the small little things that irrateted me. Wierd I know like when she was sleeping she moved her feel up an down and she chewed her food louder than normall, I miss loving unconditonally. I miss the days when it was just us. I miss the feeling she gave me just by looking at me. I miss the long nights and warm days. The feeling of security the loving nauture of 2 people in love. Her terrible cooking and her storyies at the end of every day. I miss the old life i used to have. But leaving it to start new days having learnt what I know may be well worth it, only time can tell. I just miss her alot latly. There is no harm in reminessing but be carefull of how much and how often you do it.
KittenMoon Posted July 15, 2006 Posted July 15, 2006 I miss the most: -inside jokes -watching tv/movies on the couch at night -cooking him dinner -hearing my nicknames -buying him candy And obviously the feeling of being loved. >sigh<
Shane361 Posted July 15, 2006 Posted July 15, 2006 I miss the idea that I was in love. Rather optimistic in each lady I date. I love all the nice little things that happen on a day to day basis. Waking up with someone there. The affection from holding hands to sex to telling her I loved her and meaning it. Too bad floating on cloud 9 doesnt last long, or hasnt in my past-Shane
Author Diver012 Posted July 16, 2006 Author Posted July 16, 2006 I see the same pattern in a lot of people that I am realizing in myself. I miss the experience more than I miss the person. As a matter of fact, I really dont miss the person that mistreated me at all. Yeah those nice times are wonderful and great, but the person they turned out to be, is not the person I want to end up with. I would rather have someone in my life that appreciates my qualities, and doesnt kick me to the curb, because I dont measure up to their standards.
Brittanyjean06 Posted July 16, 2006 Posted July 16, 2006 I miss the feeling of excitement when you haven't seen them for a week because of a fight. I miss sex. I miss snuggling and the arguments we got in and the tension. ( Weird I know) I miss the days where I was 15 and was sneaking out of the house on a school night on his moped. There was alot of pain in my relationship though. Alot. Things I never desearved. I miss the way I felt the most. what about the things you don't miss? Your right I've noticed a pattern to. All the love was coming from within us and going towards a person who really didn't desearve it.
Author Diver012 Posted July 16, 2006 Author Posted July 16, 2006 I dont miss teh unappreciation I dont miss the disrespect I dont miss feeling devalued I dont miss feeling taken advantage of I dont miss feeling belittled I dont miss not being listened too I dont miss my needs and feelings not being considered I dont miss feeling overpowered I dont miss her. I know theres better
NightsInWhiteSatin Posted July 16, 2006 Posted July 16, 2006 What do you miss most? The person you were in a relationship with? Being in a relationship to begin with? The way that person made you feel while in the relationship? A combination of things? Just Wondering how other people feel. meh Don't make me dwell...
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