loveinlife Posted July 15, 2006 Posted July 15, 2006 My ex and I went out for a year and half. We broke up on the terms that she needed more time for school. However, a few months after we broke up, I believe she met another guy that she is concealing from me, as my friend who knows her tells me. Its been almost a year now that we broke up, but we still keep in contact on the phone. I am still healing from this incident bc I thought she was this perfect woman i would spend the rest of my life with. Each time as i get stronger to move on, she happens to call me up. I even tell her that I won't be talking to her any more, but she calls, ussually the next day. I want to heal and move past this relationship. However, each time she calls, it brings me back to the times where I was depressed that she left me. I still care about her and would love to be with her again, but i know i am living in a delusional state to think of something like this bc I believe she has a bf. What should I do to stop her from calling me? I've thought about not calling her back, but what if it was an emergency and she needed some help. Please advise me. Thank You =)
johnnytable Posted July 25, 2006 Posted July 25, 2006 You need to stop taking her calls until you are healed. A year is a long time to be in this state. You are here because you have been maintaining contact. If it is an emergency, she can call somebody else. Imagine what she would do if you were out of the country. That is what she should do instead. If you stop returning phone calls, I would imagine that she will give up and go away.
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