Guest Posted July 15, 2006 Posted July 15, 2006 When a guy tells a female friend that sometimes friendships can go deeper than you think, what exactly does he mean? Is it that he just means he cares for her more than other female friends he has? Or is he meaning he wants more, cares for her or loves her possibly more than a friend?
PandorasBox Posted July 15, 2006 Posted July 15, 2006 Hard to say for sure exactly what he means. I guess it depends how close the two are to begin with. It could mean he cares for her more than she thinks, or that he is wanting more from the relationship/friendship.
Guest Posted July 15, 2006 Posted July 15, 2006 Hard to say for sure exactly what he means. I guess it depends how close the two are to begin with. It could mean he cares for her more than she thinks, or that he is wanting more from the relationship/friendship. Well we have been good friends for about 4 years now. I have always felt something for him more than just friends but never acted on it, becasue I'm not one to make a first move. I forgot how we got on the subject, but it was something along the lines of, how would you feel if you liked alot more than just a friend and the other one maybe didn't feel the same. That was my question to him, and that when he answered me saying, sometimes friendships go deeper than you think. I'm not sure what to make of that.
JadeStar Posted July 17, 2006 Posted July 17, 2006 Sounds to me like he does like you more than just a friend and that his feelings for you run deeper than you think. Why he hasn't acted on it, that I don't know. Jade
Sally00 Posted July 17, 2006 Posted July 17, 2006 When a guy tells a female friend that sometimes friendships can go deeper than you think, what exactly does he mean? Is it that he just means he cares for her more than other female friends he has? Or is he meaning he wants more, cares for her or loves her possibly more than a friend? My first thought from this was that he likes you more than a friend... your relationship with him is deeper than just friends... My b/f and I were friends for over year. Our relationship went deeper and now we've been dating for almost 1/2 a year.
norajane Posted July 17, 2006 Posted July 17, 2006 If you're close friends, then I'm sure you hug...maybe as a hello or goodbye greeting, if nothing else. It's not so hard to look him in the eye after a hug and sort of lean in a little...if he doesn't kiss you, you can kiss him... I think he likes you, but is just too afraid you don't feel the same way. If you never make the first move, you'll both grow old and die wondering, wondering, wondering...
Guest Posted July 17, 2006 Posted July 17, 2006 If you're close friends, then I'm sure you hug...maybe as a hello or goodbye greeting, if nothing else. It's not so hard to look him in the eye after a hug and sort of lean in a little...if he doesn't kiss you, you can kiss him... I think he likes you, but is just too afraid you don't feel the same way. If you never make the first move, you'll both grow old and die wondering, wondering, wondering... I doubt I'll be hugging him or kissing him or nor will he do that to me. He is married. I know some of you will say then why does it matter what he says, but it was just cuz I was wondering. At one point in my life I did deveolp feelings for him myself, becasue he talked to me alot about my problems, but I realized thats not uncommon and the fact he is married made me step way off. I have no plans on taking things further nor does he. I just thought it was odd for him to say that espceailly with him being married. If he did mean he liked me more than just as a friend, maybe he was meaning IF the situation was different. In 4 years of being a friend to him he has never done anything or said anything out of the way, I just thought that statement he made was odd. Maybe it was his way of telling me or letting me know friends can go deeper becasue he does like me more, and wanted to see how I would respond. Not sure. But I didn't even ask him what he meant nor did he elborate on it.
JackJack Posted July 17, 2006 Posted July 17, 2006 I doubt I'll be hugging him or kissing him or nor will he do that to me. He is married. I know some of you will say then why does it matter what he says, but it was just cuz I was wondering. At one point in my life I did deveolp feelings for him myself, becasue he talked to me alot about my problems, but I realized thats not uncommon and the fact he is married made me step way off. I have no plans on taking things further nor does he. I just thought it was odd for him to say that espceailly with him being married. If he did mean he liked me more than just as a friend, maybe he was meaning IF the situation was different. In 4 years of being a friend to him he has never done anything or said anything out of the way, I just thought that statement he made was odd. Maybe it was his way of telling me or letting me know friends can go deeper becasue he does like me more, and wanted to see how I would respond. Not sure. But I didn't even ask him what he meant nor did he elborate on it. Its good you have stepped way back from the situation. Personally you might want to cut ties with him. I think he was implying friendships can go deeper than you think becasue he was wanting to have more of a relationship with you, possibly sexual. IMO he told you that, to see what you would do/say, since he probably already figured you liked him at one point. His statement to you was kind of like bait for him to see what you would do with it.
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