Crono69 Posted July 15, 2006 Posted July 15, 2006 I feel I need to let my anger out somewhere cause I cant let my family or friends know how weak I am. Anyways, heres my story. Ill try to keep it short. I met this girl 2 years ago. We spent alot of time ditchin class and hanging out at my house during school. We would probably be around eachother 6 or so hours a day because of that. She had a BF the 1st 2 months of meeting her and she broke up with him I thought for me cause we would hangout alot. She asked me out but I thought she meant as friends and I told her not as friends. She seemed really happy about it and we did go out. She sat really close and our legs were touching. I didnt do anything about it and I regret it because I think I was stuck in the friends zone from that moment on. After that I would get mad at her alot for stupid things and we would fight. Although we did watch movies at my house and we would sit close to eachother. Alot of time was spent silent cause we were mad. She eventually said she cant see me anymore. I said ok... months later she calls me up but I didnt know till 2 days later then I called her and she was like " Oh, I thought you hated me." Blah blah blah. We hung out all day but apparently she liked some other guy now... She was crying over him and I told her I care for her and I held her hand. She pulled away after a minute or so and said no. I was devasted yet again. So I said if you really like this guy then ask him out, its not big deal if you ask a guy out. I tried to comfort her but she just didnt want me around anymore... She deleted my # I would see her at school but we would look away from eachother. I caught her a couple times smiling at me when I would do something goofy in class so I kept thinking maybe she regrets what she has done to me. I still didnt talk to her cause of fear. Finaly school is over she has graduated and I have been left behind yet again.. and I havent seen her in months. I decide to email her through myspace and see whats up with her. She seemed happy to hear from me and sent me a friend request. We talked through mail for a while and I would show her things and I asked to see her. She said that she would but is not in town. We still talked. Then all of sudden no more replies. I messaged her 3 times. All of which she has read but not replied. I will check my sent messages and they will just say read instead of replied... I am very pissed off that she would do this to me. I dont know what to do anymore
nikerun21 Posted July 15, 2006 Posted July 15, 2006 well unfortunately your situation is bad, you dont have much of a chance with this girl. Stop acting like a wussy, since you want her, her stock is priced at a premium, a girl has to want you not you wanting the girl. And she graduated and you didnt and its my experience that if your not in the same location your basically screwed. I'd neg hit her, slam her with some emails. See since your not in her life, shes dropping yuou from it. What can you provide her life since you dont go to her school anymore and she like ssomeone else? You have to have something to offer. Be cocky and funny and joke. Sorry man
Author Crono69 Posted July 15, 2006 Author Posted July 15, 2006 Yeah, I know im a wussy. I have had a few chances to hook up with girls but blew it everytime. I just didnt try very hard. Like some chick at the mall said I was cute like 3 times. It was on 2 different days too. She was with her friends and I assumed it was a joke but they never laughed once. DIDNT DO ANYTHING! A couple chicks at my school think Im hot too but I never asked them out. I just didnt care. Yes, I do do the cocky funny thing. Im actually pretty good at it. BUT i didnt do it when I was with her. I was way too serious around her. I have changed my act a bit and I wanted my chance to see her. I thought I was gonna get my chance but then I get no more replies... I know she could dig me but she probably thinks Im still a "needy" kid. Yes, she said I was needy once... Maybe I still am but I am a different person in the last year we didnt see eachother. I made it seem like I wanted nothing to do with her by ignoring her completely. I felt that it worked cause I would see her look at me and smile at me a few times. But the emails we sent to eachother. She really made it seem that she wanted me in her life. Sometimes I feel like maybe her sister was the one replying without her knowing and playing a cruel joke on me. Her sister is pretty mean. Why else would I get nice emails then all of a sudden nothing? Im confused.
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