hopeless_romantic Posted July 14, 2006 Posted July 14, 2006 I recently experience a "break" due to my girlfriend's request. We had been going out for about a year and a half. We had our arguements but nothing out of the ordinary. I went back to college with her last year and we had a blast together. At the start of summer, things got tense and weird. She mentioned a break then retracted it that night, only to finalize it the next day when I visited her at work. I was suspecting her of seeing a guy at her work but that's a misconception I believe. We're back on speaking terms for the past month or so. We see each other about once a week and it's usually a pretty romantic setting. We actually made love one night! We're also back to calling each other by our pet names. The communication level has decreased, and so has the availability and intimacy. But there's a part of me that thinks it's still possible. The only problems is I think she has a commitment phobia and there was evidence of a new guy who she said is "nothing to stress over, nothing going on, he's doesn't want anything". I'm hoping she comes around when we go back to school but I'm still wondering on anyone else suggestions. Now, if all there is is bad news, let me down easy. My wounds are still raw!
juniper fumes Posted July 14, 2006 Posted July 14, 2006 What's your situation - do you both go to the same college, don't live so close during the summer? You mention visiting her at work, or visiting her once a week...I am confused as to whether that's because you are far-ish apart right now, or that's the only time she's giving you.
Author hopeless_romantic Posted July 15, 2006 Author Posted July 15, 2006 We met at a friend's in our hometowns, which are right next to each other. We live about 10 mintues away here, same with once we head back to school. She says she works a lot (true) and wants to reconnect with friends she doesn't see during the school year. Friends are big to her!
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