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Will she reject me if i change, what do i do?


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Hey, there is a girl that i know and use to be good friends with. We use to talk all the time but have drifted apart. she and me had a lot in common. I recently heard from her friend that she had liked me for awhile. I didn't say anything, but my secret is that i liked her, but never had the guts to ask her out. As soon as i found out, i felt like punching myself for not asking her out when i had the chance. She calls me from time to time to see how i am doing and to catch up on old news. I know if i ask to meet up with her she will say yes, but i am scared because this week i am going to get more piercings done to me and i might get my Mohawk cut off. I am wondering if she will think diffrent of me because i am more like a bad ass and she is normal. I don't think she likes guys who are punk, but i am not sure. Do girls look at a guy's looks or do they care whats on the inside first. I never really went out with a girl that is like her before. I always stuck to my own kind if you know what i mean.

 

Some chick broke up with me a few days ago and you guys really helped me out so i was thinking if you could help me out here.

 

Once again, thanks to all you guys and girls out there...:)

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Don't ever change your image just to try and impress another individual. Do what makes you happy and if she doesn't like you for who you are, then it is her loss.

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If she rejects you because you've changed....is that really the type of person you want to be with?????????????????????????? Tiz very shallow if she does...

 

Dont ever change for anyone...pfft i did...chopped off my hair when i could nearly sit on it....i regret it so much...and he dumped me a few weeks later :bunny: pfft...men...no offense

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Hey man, i totally agree, but it has been a period between us were i have changed my look and i don't think she knows what i look like anymore. I thought that she would never go out with me so i started to change my image.

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Just remember that there is more then just looks that a woman will go for. Women(and men) also go for a great personality. Just be yourself and if she is not the shallow type that will only judge you for your looks, then there shouldn't be a problem, I mean she liked your personality before.

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It might not make a difference, especially if she thinks you're a good person. Just go out with her and if she doesn't like your look then f*ck her. :D

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Thanks guys... :) I am going to a party with some buddies tonight and she might be there.

 

PEACE...

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