wing81 Posted July 14, 2006 Posted July 14, 2006 I meet his girl a couple of weeks ago and we seemed to have a mutual interest. Since then we have seen each other twice. I'm not exactly sure if she is interested or how to pursue further. The first time we hung out after meeting she joined some other friends for some fireworks. She stood almost uncomfortable close to me soon after arriving. Afterwards we all walked back to our cars and I had a chance to talk one on one during the walk. Again we were very close together occassionally bumping into on another. The most recent time we saw each other was at a salsa dancing class. She is the instructor and mentioned I should check it out since I had taken a ballroom dancing class in the past. She never paid any special attention to me during the class, which I expected since she was teaching but when she started talking about how important eye contact was while dancing she never broke eye contact with me even though she had someone she was demonstrating some moves with. I have invited her out twice since meeting her, once with a group and once one on one. Both time she has not been able to accept for good reasons but she seems to make sure that i know she appreciates the offer. While it has only happened one so far, again for a good reason, she will sound very interested at first and later say she can't make it. It has happened a lot in the past so it is making me a little paranoid. I was hoping to get some other people's opinion on her interest level. I could also use some advice on how to proceed, should I keep inviting her to group hang outs or ask her on a one on one "date". Thanks for you help.
Outcast Posted July 15, 2006 Posted July 15, 2006 If she didn't propose an alternative day then she's not interested. 'No thanks' means 'no thanks forever'. 'No thanks I can't do this but I'd love a raincheck' means she's interested.
MsArtful Posted July 15, 2006 Posted July 15, 2006 What outcast said was true, if she hinted at getting together another time, then she's probably interested. If so perhaps one or two more outings with groups could help with initial awkwardness, and then afterwards you can go with the one on one.
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