john_nyc Posted July 14, 2006 Posted July 14, 2006 Have you ever felt so jadded that you feel that there isn't any decent (I'm not saying perfect, just decent) women out there? It seems to me sometimes that they is always something horrible about them. Same question to women on men. How do you get out of the jaded thing? John
j.carsey Posted July 14, 2006 Posted July 14, 2006 No, I don't feel jaded and I know there are plenty of excellent women out there. But it's never that easy to find them, after all they are not all single, nor necessarily looking. If you're not happy with the kind of people you're meeting, could you be looking in the wrong places? You're going to say you meet them at bars, aren't you, and I'm going to tell you again that bars are a bad place to meet people of high quality Because they're drunk and they're superficial
LexiB Posted July 14, 2006 Posted July 14, 2006 I'm acquainted with quite a few decent guys (and gals) so I know for a fact that they do indeed exist. *My* problem is that I can't seem to find one I'm interested in ~ or at times vice versa
blind_otter Posted July 14, 2006 Posted July 14, 2006 I don't go to bars. Ever. Not any more. That said, what is so horrible about all these people? Are they nose pickers? Do they kill small animals? Are they prone to theft? Do they have poor personal hygiene?
j.carsey Posted July 14, 2006 Posted July 14, 2006 Only drunk, superficial people EVER go into a bar? So that means you NEVER enter a bar, right? Either that, or you're a superficial drunk. No, not everyone at the bar I'm just saying it tends to attract that kind of crowd
BrokenSpirit Posted July 14, 2006 Posted July 14, 2006 Luvmy2ns someone hit a sore spot on you huh? You seem to be taking it very personal... Its not that ALL people who go to bars are BAD PEOPLE, no here said that, but most are not looking for a relationship lets be realistic. That doesnt make them bad people, thats not the way I think the person that posted this intended that... And I agree with John, its hard to meet a decent person in a bar thats looking for something... Most men I meet at bars or clubs are only looking for one thing. And you listed these men by their jobs, does that mean only nice men have good jobs??? I have been going out to bars/clubs/lounges for years on and off and its very hard to meet a decent person who is looking to meet someone special... Its not impossible but any relationship I have ever had has not been with any man I have met out... And most of my friends, same thing... I have to agree you have to change the quality of places where you are looking and the quality of women you meet will change as well... And just keep your eyes open for warning signs that something is amist with these women from the getgo... You can get a feel for a person from the first conversation... Not always but most of the time... And on top of that people always want what they cant have... If everyone on here including myself, werent pining for our ex's but out there looking for someone who was better suited for us then maybe we'd meet nice people... Just a thought......lol
j.carsey Posted July 15, 2006 Posted July 15, 2006 If everyone on here including myself, werent pining for our ex's but out there looking for someone who was better suited for us then maybe we'd meet nice people... Just a thought......lol omg you are so right Most useful truth I've read on LS all day
BrokenSpirit Posted July 15, 2006 Posted July 15, 2006 Yea and if only I could take my own advice! hahaha
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