longcut11 Posted July 13, 2006 Posted July 13, 2006 I posted my break up story a while back and I it was very helpful to hear some advice from people. I have been doing ok and I thought I was getting over it then the other day she broke NC. We dated for 7 years and she broke up with me back in april, we have not talked for about 3 months and then last week she IMed me. I deleted her from my buddy list so I didn't know what she was doing and to keep from upseting me. And I was getting ready to go on a little weekend getaway, and so I had a away message up that said "packing." I walked by my computer and noticed that she had Imed me, so I read it and she asked what I was packing for, so I told her. And we had a conversation for about 10 minutes then she asked if she could come get some dvds of hers that I had. I told her I wasn't going to be in town but I would just drop them off at my parents house and she could pick them up there(we are from the same town so she goes back to my hometown to see her parents) I felt pretty good about the conversation because I played it pretty cool and made sure not to tell her to much about what I was doing, because I didn't want her to have the upper hand. But then I said that I had to go and she was like "oh" like she wanted to talk more. My Question is, why did she talk to me? I mean I'm sure she still thinks of me, but she broke up with me, and my take is, she didn't want to be with me, so just leave me alone. And I think that the whole picking up the dvds thing was just an accuse to talk or see me. And what sucks is, it just gave me false hope that she wants to go back out. And so I'm back into this depression and thinking of her all the time. I think she wants to be friends but its just to hard to be her friend. I just don't understand what someone is thinking when they say they don't want to be together but then she wants to know what I'm doing. I mean if she's that worried about it, why break up? I just was hoping someone could give me some insight as to what to make of all this, and how not to think that she wants me back. I mean I want to hear that she was just making conversation, but at the same time, I want to feel wanted so it's nice to think that she wants me back. Thanks
laRubiaBonita Posted July 13, 2006 Posted July 13, 2006 start up NC again..... do not get sucked back in so she can trample your heart again.... she i s just lonesome now too, and wants to have a pity party and hopefully somewill make her feel good by giving her attention. do not do it anymore!
Chinook Posted July 13, 2006 Posted July 13, 2006 start up NC again..... do not get sucked back in so she can trample your heart again.... she i s just lonesome now too, and wants to have a pity party and hopefully somewill make her feel good by giving her attention. do not do it anymore! Agree with everything LaRu said..
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