Guest Posted July 13, 2006 Posted July 13, 2006 So I came out of a breakup pretty recently, and I met someone I think is great. We havent known eachother too long, but we seemed to click right away and got along great. We met eachother off the net, and we've seen eachother basically once a week since we started talking. This person also came out of a breakup recently, also from a LTR. I know we are both still getting over our exes, and the fact that this person is leaving the state soon makes things difficult. I really like this person and I thought they liked me back, we went out on a date the last time we met, and we ended up getting a little physical and this person spent the night. This person kinda warned me that nothing could happen between us cause they're leaving and the distance so soon (we really havent had any time to know eachother in person before settling into LD)... but promised it wouldnt hurt our friendship. Since then, this person has been extremely busy and I dont know whether to feel hurt about it. Is this person avoiding me? or could this person truly be busy? We used to talk hours and hours and now its down to maybe a 30 min convo a day. Did he just use me? or did things get weird? This person said we'll try to meet one more time before they leave (I dont know as friends or more..) and I dont even know whether to beleive them. I do want more, and know there cant be... and i just feel kinda hurt and sad by this all. what do I do?
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