Confuzzled85 Posted July 13, 2006 Posted July 13, 2006 Hello Guys, Im new to all this and I really dont know where to start... Ive BF of 3 years has recently broken up with me, and Im devestated. We have spoken since and he has said it is not me, he just wants to be single and have freedom, now I do admit I am partly to blame, I did like him to always call me etc, and maybe that could be seen as too clingy I dont know, but anyway Ive learnt from my mistakes and I would never do it again! but the question is does he want me back? Do I fight for him? or do I just move on? He says he wants to be best friends? obviously this is very hard for me, also because we have the same group of friends. He has always said that he wishes he met me when we were older, not too sure why im guessing because he would like to settle down with me? but he has also just recently said I love you just as a mate. Im Confused and I dont know where to go from here. This was two weeks ago and although its getting better it still hurts, I dont want to feel like I havent gave it my all? We are going away 2gether in a couple of weeks and its something we both cannot get out of. Do I just go and have fun make him see what hes missing out on? I know he still cries over me, I dont know what hes thinking, Any help would be fantastic thank you
norajane Posted July 17, 2006 Posted July 17, 2006 I fail to see why he would cry if he's the one who broke up with you and wants to be foot loose and fancy free. He said he wishes he met you when he was older, because he's not ready for a committed relationship and still wants to date other women before settling down...and you apparently are ready for more of a commitment. The holidays...can you sell your bit of it to one of your other friends? Personally, I wouldn't go and put myself through the torture of vacationing with someone who broke up with me.
Author Confuzzled85 Posted July 18, 2006 Author Posted July 18, 2006 I dont really know either, im beginning to accept its over, Im thinking maybe your right he wants to date other women and see if hes missing anything, and maybe feels we can settle down later in life, but as you can understand I cant just wait around for him. Unfortunately not I am unable to sell them as the flights cannot be transferred.
Citizen Erased Posted July 18, 2006 Posted July 18, 2006 Don't accept that crap that because you wanted him to call you that you are too clingy. You need to communicate. Now, if you were spending 24 hours/7 days a week with him then I could understand but I'm guessing not. Get over this loser and go out and find someone who can stick with you even if you want him to pick up the phone to speak to you for 5 minutes!
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