Author everybody_chill Posted July 16, 2006 Author Posted July 16, 2006 I don't think you did ANYTHING to push her away! I really needed to hear that. I was honest here about everything that happened and it does help me to hear that from you. I do think that she was really into me and I think she still does feel the same way. (not that I intend on persuing her) I think she decided to avoid me because of her ex. I mean, she was calling me and texting me like mad all week. I tried to hold back but I melted. Then came her sudden change - just not sure why. I am really baffled by that. Most of my sadness is about the situation as a whole. I am a little sad about her specifically, but more over it is the situation that disheartens me. I think she is really confused right now and I understand why. So am I.
johan Posted July 16, 2006 Posted July 16, 2006 I think you put the moves on a woman, and it ended up being the wrong one. That's going to happen a lot. But you tried, and that's a good thing. You seem to invest a lot in these women though, so you're taking it hard. Next time around you need to understand when you're hopes are getting too high and find a way to talk yourself down from it. Otherwise, I think what you did was fine. The one big difference would be that you should stay away from women who have other men in their lives. Particularly married ones. It's not that big a deal, and you should lighten up on yourself. You're being excessively hard on yourself. These things happen to every guy, trust me. You just have to learn from them. No big deal.
Author everybody_chill Posted July 16, 2006 Author Posted July 16, 2006 This woman used you to warm her ex up. She did that exercise successfully to your dismay. It sounds like you are dying for attention too. Try to look for love in the right places. Wish you luck in your future romantic adventures. I do like a woman's attention, probably went a little overboard on this one but it wasn't one sided. I do believe that she was playing me for her benefit. I pretty much called her out on it yesterday. It's too bad she don't realize that she is in for a world on hurt with her ex. She is beautiful, smart and a great kisser..... but now I am realizing there are many issues that she has. Thanks for all of your help! i may be back...
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