rmo2380 Posted July 13, 2006 Posted July 13, 2006 lets see, where to start? i have been with this girl for 4 years. she is 23 and i am 25. she is originally from mississippi and now lives in kentucky. well last week she went off on me one day saying how she missed mississippi and she wasnt happy. i was upset cause she was upset, and i listened to her and tried to comfort her. I can understand why she misses mississippi because thats where she is from and her family. after she went off that night she called me the next day and appologized to me. i told her not to applogize yada yada yada. well sunday rolled around she asked me if we could have a break. she told me she loved me and wanted to be with me but needed time to herself. she has gone back to mississippi for a week and i am beside myself. i guess i am afraid shes gonna come back in a week and tell me its over. i have invested a lot of time and feelings and money into this relationship. i have made a lot of sacrifices for this woman. i quit a job that had me travelling every week and only home on the weekends for her. i bought a house in kentucky well i am in the process, i am suppose to close next month. but the triuth is if she leaves me i dont want that house. we have talked about marriage and children too. i even bought her a ring and was going to purpose to her next month on our 4 year anniversary. i dont know what to do, should i just let her be and try to let go. or jus sit tight and weight. i would do anything for this girl. when she comes back if she comes back to me, how do i know she wont do this again down the road. i dont want to lose her, i really dont. she has went to mississippi in the past to visit just always we talked. now this no contact is making me crazy. anyways, any advice would be helpful
waitingforlove Posted July 13, 2006 Posted July 13, 2006 Hey, I don't think your situation is that hopeless. I understand how she feels. I was in the same boat she was in while with my ex. When I asked him if we could move back to where I was from for just a few years because I really missed that place, he reacted very strongly and basically said he'd rather break up than stay with me and move there. You sound like you love your girlfriend much more than he loved me. Would you consider moving with her to Mississippi if that's what she wants? When she comes back, sit down with her and tell her your standpoint. Show her that you understand her feelings and are willing to do whatever it takes for you two to stay together. She will be very impressed. And who knows? She might not even be wanting to move back. She might be just missing that place a lot, and going home for a while may be all she needs. Just stay calm and work things out patiently with her. Good luck!
Author rmo2380 Posted July 13, 2006 Author Posted July 13, 2006 well thank your for response, i would really think about moving to mississippi for her but i am bout ready to close on a house down in kentucky, i even let her help me pick it out. i bought that house for her because its a strain seeing her and driving an hr and half, but i made that sacrifce too, but thanks anyways for the good advice
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