punk666 Posted July 12, 2006 Posted July 12, 2006 Hey, i really liked a girl who just broke up with me and was woundering some ways of dealing with a break up. It happened because we didn't know each other that well and i was wondering if there is still a possibility that i can make this work in the near future. When she called me she said she still wanted to be friends. i still like her, and i still think of her. Thanks ...
wintercs Posted July 13, 2006 Posted July 13, 2006 Breakups suck, there's no denying that. Time heals, but I know that it's hard to find hope in that theory. My suggestion to you is to go out and do things with your friends - guys and girls - and just have fun. Talk about it with your friends if you need to but don't let it dominate your night. This one is a biggie - follow the no contact rule. Even though she wants to be friends, you probably don't want to be friends right now...you want to be boyfriends and girlfriends. It sucks, believe me as I am going through this right now, to have to not contact her, but it will help you heal. Best thing to do is to keep your head up and realize that at least you're not on bad terms. Good luck.
jerseydrive86 Posted July 20, 2006 Posted July 20, 2006 Breakups suck, there's no denying that. Time heals, but I know that it's hard to find hope in that theory. My suggestion to you is to go out and do things with your friends - guys and girls - and just have fun. Talk about it with your friends if you need to but don't let it dominate your night. This one is a biggie - follow the no contact rule. Even though she wants to be friends, you probably don't want to be friends right now...you want to be boyfriends and girlfriends. It sucks, believe me as I am going through this right now, to have to not contact her, but it will help you heal. Best thing to do is to keep your head up and realize that at least you're not on bad terms. Good luck. Good advice bro! I'm going through the same sh*t and this theory does help.
MrPot Posted July 21, 2006 Posted July 21, 2006 Yeah, you can't be friends with someone you have strong feelings for. Unless you consider being someone's lapdog a good friendship. Don't be a boyfriend without benefits. Walk on.
Chinook Posted July 21, 2006 Posted July 21, 2006 Hey, i really liked a girl who just broke up with me and was woundering some ways of dealing with a break up. It happened because we didn't know each other that well and i was wondering if there is still a possibility that i can make this work in the near future. When she called me she said she still wanted to be friends. i still like her, and i still think of her. Thanks ... Take it from someone who's been friends with an ex for the last two years... it ain't worth the pain. Initiate 'no contact' and walk forward as Mr Pot says.
trebon Posted July 21, 2006 Posted July 21, 2006 Ive got to agree. Im on the brink of lapdog so im cutting the ties - Its the hardest thing Ive ever had to do and it hurts like hell some days, but its better than sticking around for the time being. If you feel you can move on then distant contact might work but there is no way you'll get anything but hurt otherwise.
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