Author Sapiens Posted July 12, 2006 Author Posted July 12, 2006 we actually just want to look good for ourselves!! I don't think so.. I have never met a woman that walks around the house all made up if there is no one to see her.. -Sapiens
precious99 Posted July 12, 2006 Posted July 12, 2006 I don't think so.. I have never met a woman that walks around the house all made up if there is no one to see her.. -Sapiens And how would you know - do you make a habit of just walking into random women's houses unannounced during the day?
amaysngrace Posted July 12, 2006 Posted July 12, 2006 Umm, I think that was his point.. -Sapiens I meant they were checking out the car because they're motorheads. When I see a guy in a really expensive car and they have that "look at me" look, the first thought that pops into my head is 'I wonder how much debt they have'. And then I view them as dumb.
basscatcher Posted July 12, 2006 Posted July 12, 2006 I don't think so.. I have never met a woman that walks around the house all made up if there is no one to see her.. -Sapiens I have just in case I check my reflection in a mirror as I pass by.. Truthfully, I never know when someone will stop by to visit. I usually fix myself up each day. There are a few when I don't.. (Like a day after I've been out partying the night before.--I stay in my PJs unless I have to go out..!)
Author Sapiens Posted July 12, 2006 Author Posted July 12, 2006 And how would you know - do you make a habit of just walking into random women's houses unannounced during the day? LOL! -Sapiens P.S. I was a kid once and used to sell papers.....! LOL!
Author Sapiens Posted July 12, 2006 Author Posted July 12, 2006 YES. See my reply to alpha. I accept your answer, but my gut tells me you are lying. It is illogical and contrary to empirical evidence. -Sapiens
Author Sapiens Posted July 12, 2006 Author Posted July 12, 2006 I have just in case I check my reflection in a mirror as I pass by.. Truthfully, I never know when someone will stop by to visit. I usually fix myself up each day. There are a few when I don't.. (Like a day after I've been out partying the night before.--I stay in my PJs unless I have to go out..!) She said she did it just for herself. Here you are doing it because someone may stop by.... -Sapiens
precious99 Posted July 12, 2006 Posted July 12, 2006 Any and all evidenve is subjective. You can't ask a questions and then just try to make everyone fit into your pre-determined answer - why ask it in the first place?
Author Sapiens Posted July 12, 2006 Author Posted July 12, 2006 A conversation with a stripper? That's possible? LoL You know, they have to be pretty smart or wise up quick if they want to get the guys to cough up the money. -Sapiens
amaysngrace Posted July 12, 2006 Posted July 12, 2006 Any and all evidenve is subjective. You can't ask a questions and then just try to make everyone fit into your pre-determined answer - why ask it in the first place? I think to validate his own insecurity. I think he hopes women are as shallow as he is. Then he could actually get a woman to talk to him instead of having to pay one for conversation.
norajane Posted July 12, 2006 Posted July 12, 2006 I accept your answer, but my gut tells me you are lying. It is illogical and contrary to empirical evidence. -Sapiens I don't understand why you asked the question, then. You are going to think everyone is lying who disagrees with your premise, so it's not like you are really curious or seeking viewpoints on the subject. You just want to confirm something you already believe anyway, without the slightest possibility of looking at different perspectives. So what's the point?
Author Sapiens Posted July 12, 2006 Author Posted July 12, 2006 Any and all evidenve is subjective. You can't ask a questions and then just try to make everyone fit into your pre-determined answer - why ask it in the first place? Because believe it or not great insights come from them. I learned from the striper that male attention can be highly addictive to women, regarless if the guy is ugly, poor or dumb. -Sapiens
Author Sapiens Posted July 12, 2006 Author Posted July 12, 2006 I think to validate his own insecurity. I think he hopes women are as shallow as he is. Then he could actually get a woman to talk to him instead of having to pay one for conversation. Actullay I was getting my hair cut and she was getting her hair done. -Sapiens
Author Sapiens Posted July 12, 2006 Author Posted July 12, 2006 I don't understand why you asked the question, then. You are going to think everyone is lying who disagrees with your premise, so it's not like you are really curious or seeking viewpoints on the subject. You just want to confirm something you already believe anyway, without the slightest possibility of looking at different perspectives. So what's the point? I didn't say you lied, my instinct tells me otherwise, that does not mean you are lying. Yes, I am really curious and want your viewpoint that's all. -Sapiens
precious99 Posted July 12, 2006 Posted July 12, 2006 Well again "the stripper" (can't we just call her a woman, a girl, she) is just one opinion - believe it or not we are all different and we all have very different and still very valid opinions on all matters.
amaysngrace Posted July 12, 2006 Posted July 12, 2006 Because believe it or not great insights come from them. I learned from the striper that male attention can be highly addictive to women, regarless if the guy is ugly, poor or dumb. -Sapiens Them? Seems like you met up with more than one. FYI, I think they prefer to be referred to as 'dancers'.
Author Sapiens Posted July 12, 2006 Author Posted July 12, 2006 Well again "the stripper" (can't we just call her a woman, a girl, she) is just one opinion - believe it or not we are all different and we all have very different and still very valid opinions on all matters. I agree, however, she has been exposed to the darker side of the male persona and I was intrigued by her questions and answers to me. -Sapiens
Author Sapiens Posted July 12, 2006 Author Posted July 12, 2006 Them? Seems like you met up with more than one. FYI, I think they prefer to be referred to as 'dancers'. I meant the questions, insight from asking questions......LOL -Sapiens
Author Sapiens Posted July 12, 2006 Author Posted July 12, 2006 I think to validate his own insecurity. I think he hopes women are as shallow as he is. . What makes you think I am insecure? Even better, how can you call me shallow? LOL. -Sapiens
precious99 Posted July 12, 2006 Posted July 12, 2006 I agree, however, she has been exposed to the darker side of the male persona and I was intrigued by her questions and answers to me. -Sapiens Correction - she has been exposed to one very focused, small portion of the male population. Even in actual studies there are opinions taken from wide and varied participants - not just one "woman" who deals with a specific type of clientelle
bab Posted July 12, 2006 Posted July 12, 2006 I don't think so.. I have never met a woman that walks around the house all made up if there is no one to see her.. -Sapiens Sometimes when I'm at the house by myself, I'll do up my hair and put on my wedding veil. I love the way I look in it, but probably not appropriate to wear in public. Anyhow. The problem with your rhetorical question, is that it would never occur. There is no such thing as two men that are exactly the same in every regard other than money. And yes, the fact is that resources do matter to some degree, but they don't always trump everything. Plus there is a consequence for every dollar. I'd want the man who wasn't struggling to make ends meet, but was still willing to turn the job off at 5 pm and come hang out wtih me. I don't want a workacholic guy. That's why when I was dating I always shyed away from guys in Med school. Yeah, having the money would be nice, but lots of medical doctors never have enough time for their families. Not enough money in the world for me to validate an absentee husband.
Author Sapiens Posted July 12, 2006 Author Posted July 12, 2006 Correction - she has been exposed to one very focused, small portion of the male population. Even in actual studies there are opinions taken from wide and varied participants - not just one "woman" who deals with a specific type of clientelle LOL, you don't know many guys do you? -Sapiens
mika Posted July 12, 2006 Posted July 12, 2006 wow. is there a reason why you mentioned the conversation with the woman was a stripper? is there some significance to that? and i may be wrong but it seems like you have a twisted idea of who people are and what a relationship is. looks are not everything. and i'm sorry you believe that there are more ugly women than beautiful ones. i feel sorry for you that beautiful women to you are few and far between. it must be hard to find a good one since there aren't many. if i had the choice between those two men i would not base my decision on who looks better or who has more money or whatever you asked. i would chose the one that i can get along with. the one i feel comfortable with. the one who makes me smile. you know all the good stuff in life.
amaysngrace Posted July 12, 2006 Posted July 12, 2006 What makes you think I am insecure? Even better, how can you call me shallow? It's just a vibe I'm getting. Starting with beginning a thread with a hypothetical question to voice your own opinion.
precious99 Posted July 12, 2006 Posted July 12, 2006 Is it possible that you have the answers to everything Sapiens? Cause if you do I'd like to know when I'm gonna win the lottery? The thing with opinions is - if you want yours to be heard and respected you have to be willing to do the same when others express theirs
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