twkvfx Posted July 12, 2006 Posted July 12, 2006 when you completely lose your relationships with certain love ones, such as family members, reketives, cousins, friends, etc, how do you turn things around and regain it?
littlekitty Posted July 12, 2006 Posted July 12, 2006 A lot depends on why you lost the relationship. If there was some arguement or something happened, then you can only apologise and try to make it right. If it's simply a time/distance reason for the lack of recent contact, then there should be no reason why stepping back up the level of contact will regain the relationship.
littlekitty Posted July 12, 2006 Posted July 12, 2006 A lot depends on why you lost the relationship. If there was some arguement or something happened, then you can only apologise and try to make it right. If it's simply a time/distance reason for the lack of recent contact, then there should be no reason why stepping back up the level of contact will regain the relationship.
basscatcher Posted July 12, 2006 Posted July 12, 2006 when you completely lose your relationships with certain love ones, such as family members, reketives, cousins, friends, etc, how do you turn things around and regain it? I lost many friends growing up because they relocated to other citys and states. It was devastatig to me because I was never one to have large circles of friends. I preferred to keep 1 or 2 close to me. I also moved a couple of times to the neighboring town and had to start new and lost my old friends because we were young, calling each other was long distance, we didn't have cars or drivers licenses and as we got older we drifted in different directions with different interests and social crowds. If you were apart of a conflict with a person and that caused the seperation then humbling yourself to the other person and admitting your wrong doing is a start to mending the relationship. People will come and they will go out of your life for the rest of your life. Each person that comes into your life is for you to gain something from them or them from you. There are but a few that will stand with you for the rest of your lives. Learn to enjoy the friendships and relatioships for what they are in the time they were. Never lose hope that you won't have another friend because you lost one or one drifted from you. Being a kid and teenager is very confusing and can be very difficult. Always have faith and hope. Never be too arrogant to say your sorry. Always look back on events and learn from them. Use decernment when listening and believing what you are learning/listening too.
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