Parrishva Posted July 12, 2006 Posted July 12, 2006 Have been dating for 8 months and living together for 3 months. Now that we live together I actualy see how much time she spends online chatting. She has a whole community of friends she talks to for hours each day. ( most of them she has never met in person.) She will not tell me the content of these online conversations and if I walk into the room when she is online she will minimize the chat screens. ( very suspicius if you ask me ) The other night she made the mistake of telling me that some of her online "friends" know more about her and know her closer then I do.( me the 8 month live in boyfriend) This was comment that put me over the top and I felt like taking the computer and throwing it through the wall. After reading horror stories resulting from wives and GF's online chatting, this situation has really started to bother me and starin our relationship. Anyone have any advise on how to handle this instead of smashing the computer on her head.
LikkleMissConfused Posted July 12, 2006 Posted July 12, 2006 Tell her that is is making you feel uncomfortable and that you would also like to be a part of that community! See how she responds or maybe she uses it as a confidence boost. As long as she is up to no good don't worry.
jessssss Posted July 12, 2006 Posted July 12, 2006 that would get to me too, be up front with her at how bad it is bothering you. understand that it prob will be hard for her to just quit cold turkey and prob wont' happen right off the bat but she could realize and see how she would feel if hte roles were reversed or like someone mentioned, you could join in with her.
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