mika Posted July 12, 2006 Posted July 12, 2006 everytime my boyfriend of 8 years and i break up we always end up back together after only a couple of days. and when we get back it's like the greatest feeling in the world even at the time of the break up it seemed so real and so what we needed. i don't get it. i hate him most of the time but when we aren't together he's all i think about and i'm all he thinks about. we break up a lot. he moves back and forht between me and his grandmother. anybody have any opinions about why this is like this and what we could do? it's miserable living this way.
tearful_soul22 Posted July 12, 2006 Posted July 12, 2006 yes, it does sound miserable. but why exactly do you guys break up so often? what is the major cause or issues affecting your relationship? my only suggestion is for you two to sit down and open the lines of communication. being with each other for 8 years is great and the relationship is truly worth saving. unless you get to the bottom of the problem causing your break-ups so often, this routine will continue on forever. so..start talking and confront the issues now. take care and my best to you!
Author mika Posted July 12, 2006 Author Posted July 12, 2006 thank you for the reply tearful soul22. the main issue is his drinking. bad things don't happen when he isn't drinking. he lets me down time and time again and alcohol has always been a factor. i'll try one last time to sit down and talk openly and honestly with him about it all and see where it goes. i guess that is all i can do at this point. i want our family to stay together but i realize it's a team effort. and i can't keep it together alone. at the same time it's scary. it's scary to think that it e won't want to give up the alcohol and it will really be over.
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