Author LikkleMissConfused Posted July 21, 2006 Author Posted July 21, 2006 Well he called me on Friday evening to find out what my plans are. I said I wasn't sure and we had a good chat and we left it at that. We had made plans to go for dinner on Saturday so I said I'll speak to him tomorrow and he was fine with that. Well, the weekend progressed and I heard nothing from him. By this stage I wasn't bothered either. Like you say Chinook, I deserve better treatment! Anyway 5:30am Monday morning I got a text from him saying he had to fly to Holland on business. He said sorry and if I was free to meeti tonight! I wasn't sure about replying to this text. I did anyway saying that I was only free for an hour. I texted him after lunch saying that I don't think this will work lets leave it. He texted back saying if that what I want. I said no but nothing else is being offered. He rang me then. So we met if was crap he wouldn't even come into the supermarket with me to do a bit of shopping. After talking for a bit I just said a text saying you can't make it would have been nice. I asked him is he is a decent man he said yes. I asked him if this is how decent people behave, he just looked very angry at me. Afterwards he said its best he goes his way and me mine. I agreed and he then said he's not attracted to me anymore. That is upsetting for a girl, but good to get rid of this rich idiot with no manners or sense. So all this worry was for nothing a lesson learnt and I was strong enough to get out of the car and not look back. But it was horrible his body language was like get out of my car and saying he's not attracted to me anymore that hurt. I guess he was lashing out because I hurt his pride. He may have money but no decency. Just thought I would update you. Well he has been in touch since and I'm ignoring him, not interested! Go LikkleMiss!
Chinook Posted July 21, 2006 Posted July 21, 2006 You know, I didn't say this back then... but I had a feeling it would go this way - which is why I advised you stepping back. I really think you're right to move on and let him go. He's not worth your time or energy. You deserve better and people who are into you would not 'forget' to call you or indeed be 'too busy' to even let you know. When some guy is into you for who you are and who you are to HIM... he'll let you know it. THAT's the guy who you won't need to run after!!! Go Little Miss indeed! (cut contact with him tho... otherwise the yoyo will be on)
Author LikkleMissConfused Posted July 24, 2006 Author Posted July 24, 2006 cheers Chinook! I know this might sound like I'm "blowing my own trumpet" but I don't have a problem with meeting guys or even getting attention. I saw potential in this guy but then soon realised that he's not what I want so it sreally is his loss. I have cut contact no need for it! Thank sweetie!
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