NTT148 Posted July 12, 2006 Posted July 12, 2006 Ok, well the thing is, in the past, i've fallen in love with one of my good friends (who's a girl), and i told them how i felt, but then after this, we'd just stop talking to eachother and feel awkward whenever we're together anywhere, now, i met another girl at school, we've been friends for at least 6 months, and we talk to eachother a lot and stuff, sometimes go out to see a movie or go play some sports, but im not sure whether i should tell her how i feel about her or not, becuase i don't want it ending up like the last time, but then what if she's waiting for me to make a move, and then over time she'll just get used to us being friends and that's it. what should i do?
magichands Posted July 12, 2006 Posted July 12, 2006 Would you be happy with her friendship as a consolation prize?
j.carsey Posted July 14, 2006 Posted July 14, 2006 I haven't run into many girls who have been disappointed / upset when a guy friend says they feel some attraction to them. This discomfort around her after telling her, has much more to do with what's going on in YOUR mind than in her mind. So all you have to do is get over it, realize it's not a big deal to show your interest in someone (even if it's rejected)... and just behave like you did before
JCD Posted July 23, 2006 Posted July 23, 2006 Tell her how you feel so you know where you stand with her. Not knowing and analyzing her every move is tiring. In my case there wasn't a friendship but an infatuation then love so when we broke up I couldn't go back to her as a friend because we were never friends to start with.
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