punk666 Posted July 11, 2006 Posted July 11, 2006 hey, I just asked a girl out a few weeks ago and everytime i call her i get so nervous and scared to a point that i don't bother calling her. I have gone out with a few girls and had no problems with calling them but with her it is different. I got the guts to called her a few times, but she wasn't there. I am scared that if i call her again that i will come off sounding desperate. I really like her but i do not want to scare her off. I think that what i am nervous is about talking to her since i do not know her that good. All i know is that she is really quiet and shy. All my friends say just leave her and find a girl that can handle me. Please help me out, PEACE:cool:
Sally00 Posted July 11, 2006 Posted July 11, 2006 Aww that's cute. How often do you call her anyways? If you don't want to scare her off, you could call her like maybe every other day? And I don't think you should leave her. It's only been a few weeks. And maybe you're really really nervous with THIS girl because it's someone you really really like this time. Don't listen to your weird friends haha.
purspeed Posted July 12, 2006 Posted July 12, 2006 Here's what you are going to do: 1.) call her in private (*82) 2.) do not leave a message if she don't answer 3.) when she answers, make small talk and, no matter how good the convo is, end it within a few minutes and YOU be the one to end it. Girls like badasses. So, act like one, even if you don't think you are.
Author punk666 Posted July 12, 2006 Author Posted July 12, 2006 Thanks for the help, she called me yesterday and i knew that was not a good sighn. She told me something like this, I don't know you that well and just want to be friends and think it would be better to split. It sounded like the typical break up call. What is really bugging me is that i actually liked her and i felt like crap after and didn't go to sleep till 3:30. I guess i thought to far ahead of us having a relationship that i didn't see that you need to build a friendship with a person to make them feel more comfortable with you before you ask them out. Even though we didn't know each other that well i still feel angry and upset because if she didn't want to go out with me she could of told it to my face instead of calling four weeks later.
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