Liz577 Posted July 11, 2006 Posted July 11, 2006 I just find out that my boyfriend has an another profile of his on Myspace and there are many posts by a girl that looks flirting with him. Such as you're so cute, I miss you, much love, etc. The posts of the girl include the pictures of him that all I have never seen (I think that he probably sent her those pictures). I don't know how he responds to her because this girl set her profile to private. I was so crushed knowing this. Especially now we don't contact enough each other while he is away on touring as a sound engineer for over a month. I have been feeling uneasy. We just keep texting to each cellphones with general bland conversation often. I was patient and waited for his back to home because I didn't want to be a nuisance when he was busy at work. I stayed at home most of the time torturing myself thinking what he was doing, but he didn't disregard my feelings and just out having fun? I felt so sick to my stomache. I can't sleep and I've got no appetite. Although I asked him about the girl by email and he replied with laughing it off in saying "she is married and kinda scares me some. Nothing to be jealous about. Please don't be concerned." I just can't stand the thought of other girls being with him. But I'm mostly worried if he falls for someone and forget about me. Am I just being paranoid? Or, is it normal to be upset when you see such posts on your boyfriend's profile? I want to know guy's mind or perspectives when you handle such a profile without mentioning it to your girlfriend. By the way, how I accidentally got into his another profile was that I browsed around the profiles of our mutual friends and there was the another profile of him (that he has never told me) in some friends' buddy list. It will be definitely a big help for me to look at the situation from the outside, and offer sane logic. Any views would be deeply appreciated.
spinnelli Posted July 11, 2006 Posted July 11, 2006 Please remember that you can't control his feelings. I know we get very scared when we are going through an unwanted break up, that our ex would fall for someone else. This is what makes most of us desperate and we want to stay in the ex's sights so they don't forget about us. But you have to realize that this is something you absolutely have no control over. He may fall for someone else...so what? that's what people do when they break up..they move on. I'm sorry, I know it hurts, but you have to let go,release him, let him come back to you ON HIS OWN, whether or not he falls for another is beyond your control. Don't drive yourself crazy trying to hold on to something you cant.
brokenheart888 Posted July 11, 2006 Posted July 11, 2006 I agree with the previous post. Are you guys totally over?
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