caye_kjell Posted July 11, 2006 Posted July 11, 2006 hmm hir it goes.. he's my classmate last semester.. hmm.. he's in the u.s now and im in the philippines.. we celebrate our fifth monthsary yesterday.. he always make a call to me in my cellphone.. will this relationship last ( he told me he will be back after 2 yrs. huhuuh.. ) and honestly we just stay together for about 1 month and 19 days.. do u think it will still last until he came back hir?
amaysngrace Posted July 11, 2006 Posted July 11, 2006 Most likely feelings will be there, and they will be good ones. Will it work? I think it depends how your lives both change over the next two years. If neither of you meet anyone who is as special to you as each other are, then I say yes. But I think it's good you are both living your lives without the other right now. It will allow you both to grow and become able to get your lives in order before committing to each other. Best of luck to you both!
magichands Posted July 11, 2006 Posted July 11, 2006 hmm hir it goes.. he's my classmate last semester.. hmm.. he's in the u.s now and im in the philippines.. we celebrate our fifth monthsary yesterday.. he always make a call to me in my cellphone.. will this relationship last ( he told me he will be back after 2 yrs. huhuuh.. ) and honestly we just stay together for about 1 month and 19 days.. do u think it will still last until he came back hir? I will be tough being apart, but it must be exciting when your cellphone rings! 1 year is much better than 2 years - but you never know what might happen.
Sonic_chaos Posted July 11, 2006 Posted July 11, 2006 As with any LDR, theres got to be loads of trust involved both from a point of temptation and if they will be true to there word. If he isnt then realistically you could waste 2 years of your life thinking about someone that had no intention of being with you. I hope that isnt the case at all. And he will indeed be true to his word. *after all i dont know how good you got to know him and how well you like him an vica versa* if you both work at it, with keeping in touch and talking i cant see why it shouldnt at all. 2 years is quite along time to wait for someone, and you could meet someone else in that time, quite easily. If you do and it feels right, then at least be striaght with him.
bluetuesday Posted July 11, 2006 Posted July 11, 2006 no, i don't think it will work. you're still at school and you've known him for far too short a time. two years apart is a lifetime. my guess is either he won't wait or you won't. my advice is this: don't put your life on hold. it may well be that he returns in a few years and you can start things up again if you're both available. but while you're thousands of miles apart, either the lack of trust will eat away at you, you will meet someone else or he will. that's to be expected. you're SUPPOSED to be meeting new people at your age. very few people indeed keep these things going over such a distance and timescale. just keeping it real. sorry.
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