miracgirl Posted July 11, 2006 Posted July 11, 2006 Granted I've only been seeing this person for a month, but tonight I realize that it is really over and I am devastated. I know now that this man was only interested in me for sex and I'm glad that I didn't have it with him. Still, I"ve never had a serious relationship with anyone and I was so hoping he was going to be the person he was portraying himself to be. It turns out he was just trying to get me into bed. the reason i know this is because I told him i wasn't ready yet and that's the last i heard from him. friends tell me not to take this personally, but it's hard not to when I know that he's had girlfriends before me, so obviously he is looking for a girlfriend, it's just that I'm not worth waiting for. I feel like I will never find anyone.
clandestinidad Posted July 11, 2006 Posted July 11, 2006 I'm sorry that you're having a rough night. Nights seem to be the worst times.....you're not alone, though. You have everyone here at LS...and lord knows how everyone loves to stay up late and post!!! I wanted to remind you that while it may seem like everyone is passing you by, and that they dont think you're worth waiting for....you most certainly ARE worth it. I think they probably know that you're worth waiting for, they just dont want to wait b/c they want the sex. And really, would you want to waste time on someone who's not worth giving it to? I didnt think so You're doing a great job sticking to what you want, and I commend you for that. It takes a strong person to do that. I'd much rather see someone who's waited to give it to someone special than someone who throws it around because they're lonely. (not that people who have sex only do it b/c they're lonely...just saying that your lonliness isnt worth it.) Stay strong!!!
magichands Posted July 11, 2006 Posted July 11, 2006 I feel like I will never find anyone. I feel the same way. But tomorrow is a new day, and... well, there is really no other way of looking at it. You're just not prepared to settle for anything less than you're worth. And that, I hope, is worth holding out for.
Outcast Posted July 11, 2006 Posted July 11, 2006 so obviously he is looking for a girlfriend, it's just that I'm not worth waiting for. That you don't meet a particular person's list of qualifications only means it's about him. It's not that you're not great and it's certainly not that other men will find you great. Every person likes something different - you found one that doesn't happen to like your version of different but that only means he's out of your way and leaving the path clear for someone who does appreciate you
witabix Posted July 11, 2006 Posted July 11, 2006 Oh sweetheart..... Don't be so down on yourself. Just because he was shallow and sex oriented is no reflection on you. Please do not allow this to affect your view of your worth, I am sure you are a gorgeous person with a bucket load of really cool stuff going for you. He is the one who needs to soul search, not you.
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