NightsInWhiteSatin Posted July 11, 2006 Posted July 11, 2006 ok over 3 months ago i suggested NC to my ex bf for a few weeks or months....and that i''d contact him when its over.... a month later he harrasses me for 3 weeks trying to contact me.......i ignored didnt reply in any way what so ever..... ive decided NC is going so well....i dont want it to be just a few months but till October November time............................ he's been dropping hints to people and on the internet on his msn screen name how he hates being ignored....and its obviously aimed towards me.... should i let him know that i need this No Contact to last a few months longer or carry on as i am?
stronger_daily Posted July 11, 2006 Posted July 11, 2006 You might want to let him know. That way if he decides he doesn't want to be with you he can leave. I've never actually done this with anyone so I'm not entirely sure how it works, but if you're happy not being with him right now then continue with what you're doing.
Author NightsInWhiteSatin Posted July 11, 2006 Author Posted July 11, 2006 im not with him anymore, ive not been with him for almost 4 months....no contact is what you do after you break up to help move on with your life
Diver012 Posted July 11, 2006 Posted July 11, 2006 It sounds like hes been waiting for the time period you put in place, and now that its past, hes expecting you to call. If you feel that its completely over, and your ready to move on, then I would let him know that. Atleast that way you both know, and hes not left wondering... It might help him move on as well if he knows its truely over.
Author NightsInWhiteSatin Posted July 11, 2006 Author Posted July 11, 2006 oh no you've misunderstood, the relationship was over over, no contact was for me to move on....and i said i'd get in touch because he wants to be friends....
KittenMoon Posted July 11, 2006 Posted July 11, 2006 he's been dropping hints to people and on the internet on his msn screen name how he hates being ignored....and its obviously aimed towards me.... If you think it's necessary to get him off your back can you drop hints to the same people that you are not ready to contact him yet?
Author NightsInWhiteSatin Posted July 11, 2006 Author Posted July 11, 2006 If you think it's necessary to get him off your back can you drop hints to the same people that you are not ready to contact him yet? yeps i can, that'll be better than breaking NC as seen as i'm doing so well with it.......phew!!!! lol thankyou for bringing that to my attention...i was getting all in a tiz woz then! lol
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