Dolphin22 Posted July 10, 2006 Posted July 10, 2006 I recently came across a guy of whom I used to date in high school. I haven't seen him eleven years, and I came across him on the ever so popular Myspace.com. To make a long story short, we exchanged numbers and emails and eventually met up for drinks...this started the "dating" wheel. For a month we were together every weekend and sometimes a night or two during the week. Everything was going great when he turned around and told me that he wasn't ready to have a serious girlfriend and just wasn't ready to give what I wanted. Okay, understandable, but why the mixed signals? And when I wasn't sure about something and just wanted to clarify, I got the third degree. Was it wrong for me to want to be on the same page and know where his head was at with everything? Needless to say, he told me he was feeling pressured and overwhelmed, but yet when I would ask him if he wanted to do something or had a specific event to attend, he would gladly accept the invitation. I told him that he was always welcome to say "no" that he couldn't attend with me, but yet he never did. I'm so confused and right now there seems to be nothing but tension between the two of us. I have a good feeling about he and I together and I told him I was willing to wait until he was ready to be exclusive and that things could remain in the dating status until and IF he was ready. Of course I'm not going to let it drag on forever, but I figured a few months was fair considering he was and is going through a lot of garbage from his ex surrounding the custody of his kids. What would you do? Cut the ties, give him time to come around, or try to talk to him further???? Confused
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