Tmi381 Posted July 10, 2006 Posted July 10, 2006 Has anyone been back stabbed by someone whom you thought was your friend or "best friend." I have a friend (well ex friend) who is a liar, very conniving, manipulative, and very cleaver with turning your words around to make you think that you’re crazy. She has turned new friends of mine that she met through me against me. I guess they were never my friends either. I am a very forgiving person and will bend over backwards for people. My ex friend and I have been down this road three years prior. She said she was sorry at the time and I forgave her. So I guess I'm to blame for this one. I was warned but was in denial. I guess I shouldn't worry but it hurts really bad especially when someone comes into your life and screws everything up for a second time. I let my (ex) friend of 5 years (who keeps getting kicked out different homes and losing jobs) and another friend of mine of 1.5 years stay with me. Well I'm very caring but not too much of a push over. My long term (ex) friend had no respect for my house. Tried to injure my cat buy throwing a bottle at him because he climb in her window, didn't want to pay rent on time but when she felt like it, would bring trash out of the room and sit it on the counter top in the kitchen, had two jobs but left with none, etc. So basically we bumped heads all the time. My friend of 5 years hooked up with my friend of 1.5 years. I was warned that once these two move out I wouldn't hear from them. They moved to my friend of 1.5 years best friends’ house and now they want nothing do with me. We did everything together went shopping, went out to eat, clubs, etc. Now I’m being told that I'm not a neat person, I’m fake, no a real friend, two faced, etc. I’ve never have been told this by anyone. I'm not saying that I’m perfect or tying to play the victim.. I let my friend of 1.5 years stay with me and didn't charge her anything because she was having serious problems at home. But to hear all of this this past weekend - a week later after they move out was like a forget slap in the face more like a brick. Needless to say both of them are cut off permanently but it hurts I couldn't get any sleep from all this. I take on friends like family. So now they so happy to together but my ex friend of 1.5 years doesn’t know that my friend of 5 years runs though relationships like water. She was just telling me last week that she wanted to leave my other friend and I’m convincing her not to. There are other things that were said also but I’m two faced. I just don’t understand what happened!!
Guest Posted August 14, 2006 Posted August 14, 2006 I'm sorry that I have to say this but your friend is triflin. You're not two faced but she is. You took these people in like they were your own family members and they are just going to leave you like that. Out of this situation, you're going to be the one smelling like a rose and they will be left out in the dust. What goes around comes around. They are going to wish that they treated you better. Keep your head. I kind of went through the same thing
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