numsey Posted July 10, 2006 Posted July 10, 2006 My gf and I have been together for almost 1 year now. Over like the past month her jealousy has gotten really bad. The problem is that a lot of my friends happen to be females. Don't know why but for some reason girls seem to gravitate towards me as friends. I have never done anything with them because I see them as just friends but my gf dosent see it that way. She gets really mad when they call me to hang out. I used to work as a handyman so they call me if they need help repairing something at their house or if they are having problems with their boyfriends they call me for advice. I have told her she has nothing to fear as far as me cheating on her and never given her any reason not to trust me but she is convinced that I am cheating or going to cheat on her with them. Does anyone have any advice on how to convince her that these are just my friends and nothing else? As much as I love my gf I dont want to lose my friends as they have helped me out through some really rough times.
Walk Posted July 10, 2006 Posted July 10, 2006 Well... how much time do you spend with your gf just one on one? How do you treat her when you two are together, like... what do you do for her or how do you interact with her normally? (Just trying to get a more "overall" picture of the situation, not saying you are doing anything wrong.)
witabix Posted July 10, 2006 Posted July 10, 2006 Yes walks questions are valid. If your gf has developed this recently it may be due to something she perceives in your actions.
norajane Posted July 10, 2006 Posted July 10, 2006 Have you tried introducing your friends to your girlfriend, hanging out together? That way she'll see the dynamics between you, and will have an opportunity to understand the difference between friends who are girls, and the one girl you want as your girlfriend.
mika Posted July 10, 2006 Posted July 10, 2006 i heard from someone once that even if you are just friends with the opposite sex one person is attracted to the other. i have a lot of guy friends and even though there is no crush on my part i KNOW for a fact that many of them have crushes on me. maybe it's more so that she doesn't trust them.
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