nayton Posted July 9, 2006 Posted July 9, 2006 i currently just broke up with my girlfriend last night. i broke up with her because of her emotional feelings towards her ex-boyfriend. she would always be breaking down and crying and talking to me about him about how much she misses him and stuff. i'm sure i did the right thing, i just want her to be happy with or without me. i'm really into her and it sucks to leave her because of some other guy on her mind. i just spoke to her on the phone right now and she seemed to take it the wrong way .. she started saying s*** like .. " oh all you wanna do is leave me " i told her she was being immature about the situation and i told her to think about how she really feels. and of course she knows that. i spoke to her also about being there for her still because she was always saying that i was going to leave her alone like i had before. i don't want her to think that i'm just breaking up with her just because i feel like it. she thinks i'm making it as an excuse just to break up with her. it's pretty stupid because she knows how she feels about her ex. i need to know how to make her understand why i actually broke up with her. i also told her that she was stupid because she didn't understand the situation that we were in and why i called a break. she took it as if i was one of her old ex's and just wanted to leave her. i told her i was still going to be there for her and still talk to her as a friend. but she just ignored the fact. i don't think calling her stupid was the right thing but it caused her to hang up the phone. i told her i didn't want a stupid girlfriend and she said OK and hung up. help me out
magichands Posted July 9, 2006 Posted July 9, 2006 Why are you talking to her at all if you think she's stupid. Dude, good job. You don't need to MAKE her understand anything. If you want to be her Comfort Guy TM, then go ahead and keep talking to her. But talk about what she wants to talk about. Except one thing - don't talk about whatever "relationship" you think you have with her. She's not ready for that until she's over her ex (and I'm not talking about you). If you want to look after yourself, then you need to take some time off. Don't talk to her for a while. There is really nothing to talk about - she's not over her ex. Good luck.
westernxer Posted July 9, 2006 Posted July 9, 2006 Think how stupid you'd be if you put up with her antics? Calling her stupid is nothing.
Jadey Posted July 9, 2006 Posted July 9, 2006 She was with you but not over her ex? Man, how long were you two together?? I would be so hurt. I'm sorry, I don't mean this to insult you, but...you're being more stupid than her, lol. She used to break down about her ex, TO YOU!! She clearly still love him, or at the veryleast care about him A LOT. And I'm sorry to say, more than you. I think you were more than likely just a rebound boyfriend. I know tht's harsh to say, but come on..just look at the situation will you. She's using you for some comfort. I would go STRICT NC if I was you. She doesn't even deserve you to "make her understand" let her understand herself. Leve her alone with her head to think about all of this, that is if she even cares. Don't be a doormat!! Good Luck.
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