Author billybobby Posted July 11, 2006 Author Posted July 11, 2006 If she accepts the date, actually shows up, and kisses you goodnight, then she might well be interested in you. Anything less, and you're wasting your time. See how easy this is? With all due respect, that is complete BS. Sure that is true in SOME cases, but a lot of girls wouldn't think about kissing on a first date. FYI, when I did suggest meeting, she eagerly agreed and even gave me dates that would be good for her. Unfortunately, like I said earlier, I wasn't in town so it hasn't happened yet.
alphamale Posted July 11, 2006 Posted July 11, 2006 With all due respect, that is complete BS. Sure that is true in SOME cases, but a lot of girls wouldn't think about kissing on a first date. FYI, when I did suggest meeting, she eagerly agreed and even gave me dates that would be good for her. Unfortunately, like I said earlier, I wasn't in town so it hasn't happened yet. so whats the point of your question(s) if you already have all the answers? are you asking for advice or what?
alphamale Posted July 11, 2006 Posted July 11, 2006 nobody has all the answers dude. what exactly do you need assistance with?
amaysngrace Posted July 11, 2006 Posted July 11, 2006 nobody has all the answers dude. I think you need to re-phrase the question to "why do men do this"
Author billybobby Posted July 11, 2006 Author Posted July 11, 2006 what exactly do you need assistance with? just listening to some female perspectives...you can never learn too much
michelangelo Posted July 11, 2006 Posted July 11, 2006 Then you would have responded properly to the times she could see you. You would have made it happen. So you are in different towns. Just how far apart are these towns anyway?
gfto Posted July 12, 2006 Posted July 12, 2006 a lot of girls wouldn't think about kissing on a first date. only when they don't like you.
Author billybobby Posted July 12, 2006 Author Posted July 12, 2006 Then you would have responded properly to the times she could see you. You would have made it happen. So you are in different towns. Just how far apart are these towns anyway?Well, there are some details about myself that I won't get into...you'll just have to trust me that there was no way for me to make it work.
michelangelo Posted July 12, 2006 Posted July 12, 2006 prison or lack of money? Leg irons in a basement?
Author billybobby Posted July 12, 2006 Author Posted July 12, 2006 prison or lack of money? Leg irons in a basement?lol....no, but the circumstances are beyond my control.
amaysngrace Posted July 12, 2006 Posted July 12, 2006 Well, there are some details about myself that I won't get into...you'll just have to trust me that there was no way for me to make it work. Ahh, c'mon, spill it! I need a new thought to ponder this evening
nightcrawler Posted July 21, 2006 Posted July 21, 2006 Im Telling Ya If It Wasnt For The Slice Between Thier Legs They Wouldnt Have A Friend In The World!!!
LexiB Posted July 21, 2006 Posted July 21, 2006 Im Telling Ya If It Wasnt For The Slice Between Thier Legs They Wouldnt Have A Friend In The World!!! nice sentiment:rolleyes:
sami Posted July 21, 2006 Posted July 21, 2006 "Im Telling Ya If It Wasnt For The Slice Between Their Legs They Wouldnt Have A Friend In The World". That's not really true.
trebon Posted July 21, 2006 Posted July 21, 2006 Its a tough one and it could go either way as with most problems in relationships. In htis case just keep it going. If it is an ex and she is hinting to you that she doesnt want to be alone, that will become clear in time. If its not and maybe you have already been put in the friends pile, thats ok too - how many people get it on with friends, as you get closer and closer maybe the rest will follow? Time, as always, is crucial here. Dont hope for anything too much and then if it comes it'l be even more special!
Mary3 Posted July 22, 2006 Posted July 22, 2006 But then on the other hand , she could accept your offer for a mexican dinner and still see you as a friend. Only when she gets romantic ( kiss , hugs ) do you know she is wanting more than just dinner. ...( and that can happen anywhere between the 1st and the 10th date ~if you take it that far.. ) I went out with a guy 3 times and never felt romantic towards him. Of course , now I have learned if I don't feel a chemistry in the beginning rarely do I feel it 3 dates later.... Find out if you are in the forever friendzone by asking her out and see what happens.
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