MacGyver Posted July 9, 2006 Posted July 9, 2006 Guys/Girls. I'm having a really hard time with my breakup, and i sooo want to call her to see if she is ok. Its' been NC for 4 days and she hasnt rang or anything, and im scared that she will never ring. Help...
lebowski24 Posted July 9, 2006 Posted July 9, 2006 Don't do it man. I was on NC for 2 weeks and suddenly decided I had to call my ex. Needless to say, I ended up feeling (way) worse afterwards than I was before. I've been back on for almost another 2 weeks now, and no way am I calling any time soon. 99 times out of 100, nothing good will come of it. If you have her number in your cell phone, write it down, put it somewhere that you can't get to easily (for me, my desk at work so I have no way of calling over the weekend), and delete it from your phone.
Diver012 Posted July 9, 2006 Posted July 9, 2006 Don't do it man. I was on NC for 2 weeks and suddenly decided I had to call my ex. Needless to say, I ended up feeling (way) worse afterwards than I was before. I've been back on for almost another 2 weeks now, and no way am I calling any time soon. 99 times out of 100, nothing good will come of it. If you have her number in your cell phone, write it down, put it somewhere that you can't get to easily (for me, my desk at work so I have no way of calling over the weekend), and delete it from your phone. I would even go a step further and delete it completely. Dont write it down. Its time for you to dump her. Delete her email address. IF you use MySpace, remove her from that. If you have her stuff, send it back. Dump her for what shes done...
Jadey Posted July 9, 2006 Posted July 9, 2006 I totally understand how you feel hun. I want to call my ex boyfriend up too, just to speak to him, just to hear his voice, hear him say ANYTHING. But, no, I will not!! I don't know your situation and why things didn't work out, but, with me..he wanted time, he said it wasn't working right now, but maybe it could in the future and he'd like to be my "friend". Now, we were speaking on a message board we both post on and we sent eachother a couple of PM's (him sending me one first might I add.) and so, we were KIND OF speaking last night, but now, I'm leaving it up to him. If he really wanted to be my friend...he'll coem to me. He was the last to PM me, and I just left it since he asked me no questions or anything, so it would be so obvious I just wanted to carry the conversation on if I had sent him one back, as there was nopthing more to say. And it's only been 3 days :(. Look, basically what I'm saying is, please don't call her. Like I said, I don't know your situation and who dumped who (but I am guessing YOU were dumped? that's usually the case on here...lol.) but regardless..don't call her to see if she's ok. Has she called YOU to see if YOU'RE okay? Nope. Let HER be the first to call (IF she ever does.) not you. And then, if she does get in contact with you..is it really a good idea for you to be in contact? I'd say it's slightly different if you dumped her though. But even then, it's only gona hurt her more, probably. She know where you are. Just stay strong, and good luck .
magichands Posted July 9, 2006 Posted July 9, 2006 Don't be the one to crack first!!!! But seriously, listen to the smart people here.
westernxer Posted July 9, 2006 Posted July 9, 2006 i sooo want to call her to see if she is ok. Is she dying?
gabelee Posted July 9, 2006 Posted July 9, 2006 Don't wait by the phone. Throw away her number NOW. NO matter how hot she is or sweet she was before. She's a different person now. It's like Buddy Hackett said, "Why should I be worrying about somebody who's out dancing?" (or something like that. Corny, but perhaps have a think about that concept). Time brings healing and brand-spanking-new opportunities. Put your trust in those 100% guaranteed opportunities! I know it's super hard the first week or so, esp. if she was your "li'l kitten," but stand your ground, stud, you'll be SUPER glad you did!
Author MacGyver Posted July 9, 2006 Author Posted July 9, 2006 Thank you soo much guys/girls. You stopped me from wanting to ring. What would i do without this place...... I've deleted her number, and im packing the rest of her stuff and am going to post it off as soon as possible. Thanks again! XOXO to all of you.
magichands Posted July 10, 2006 Posted July 10, 2006 I've deleted her number, and im packing the rest of her stuff and am going to post it off as soon as possible. I guess that you forgot to delete her address.
Author MacGyver Posted July 10, 2006 Author Posted July 10, 2006 LOL, even if i delete everything of hers, nothing is going to delete the address/number/etc from my memory. I know her number/address of by heart. P.S. I'll be back soon because i can see myself wanting to call again. But with people like you i think ill be fine.
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