Final Heaven Posted July 9, 2006 Posted July 9, 2006 Okay so in my last post maybe some of you guys might have read it. But anyway lets just say I am trying to get over the fact that we won't be able to be together. So I decided to just stop talking to her, well its been a week since I last talk to her and I think I feel alot better this way. Everytime she message me on MSN I would just say I gtg and thats it. When I see her in college I just try to smile just walk past by. The two days ago she message me and say that she doesn't know whats happening between the both of us, but she thought we were still friends and that she has a feeling that I don't wanna be friends with her anymore. Seriously I have no idea what I want, I think I feel better this way but at the same time I really like her. I just wanna get on with life.. sigh!!
seanryann Posted July 9, 2006 Posted July 9, 2006 Yep, I'm in a similar situation, but we're not in school for another several weeks. I know exactly how you feel. You feel better staying away from her, as I do now. But at the same time, you wonder if you have an obligation to be friendly with her still. I suggest letting her know, that you just need some time to re-group, and that you still value her friendship, but that you need some time to yourself for a little while, and that you apprecate the fact that she still wants to be friends, and that you want to as well (unless you want to cut ties with her alltogether, which is an option you have as well) You need to take some time still and make sure you're over her. Being around her means you run the risk of re-igniting the feelings you once had for her. You're doing really well getting over her, and you don't want to risk that quite yet. I'd suggest letting her know what's what. That you like her as a friend, and that you want to take a bit of a breather from her for a little while too. I'm sure she'll understand.
Author Final Heaven Posted July 9, 2006 Author Posted July 9, 2006 Well I don't even know if I even want to me friends still. This girl has dissapoint me so much not only because she rejected me,but the fact that she does and say thats which makes me feel unimportant. And 1 day I just got really tired of everything.
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