Guest Posted July 8, 2006 Posted July 8, 2006 Hello. I've been in a relationship for less than three months, and from the beginning I wasn't completely happy. I always had this horrible feeling inside, like a foreboding. The guy I am in the relationship with is very clingy, very dramatic. He has several personality disorders, including the histrionic and narcissistic personality disorders, and tends to be rather borderline. He also hasn't broken up with his old long-distance boyfriend of three months. In fact, he still flirts with him. I tried to end things with him a while ago, but he reacted horribly, taking pills, remarking about the part of him that died... And I didn't even get to the part where I was going to ask to break up. I've become boring to him, however. He doesn't think I love him anymore, and a mutual friend notified me of him saying he couldn't stay with me for a long time, like he planned. Also, that he doesn't want to break up with me because he's afraid of disappointing me. He also flirts with others. I can't end this relationship out of fear of upsetting him, despite him not being terribly into me anymore. If he's going to end it, he had best do it soon; in a few months, I go to college, and I don't want any distractions such as that. Does anyone know what to do about this? He still claims to miss me, to love me and to never want to leave me, but I know he truly thinks otherwise. Besides, he has anywhere from 1-3 other boyfriends or love interests. How can I get him to break up with me? It's an odd question, I know. But I need the best strategies. Breaking up with him is too risky, I need to get him to dump me. However silly it sounds, I need a game plan here.
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