mARIA RODRIGUEZ Posted July 7, 2006 Posted July 7, 2006 I’m confused and hurt.. My Boyfriend of 2 yrs. Broke up with me last month. He told me that he didn’t feel the same about me anymore since we were having a lot of problems in our relationship. This guy said he loved me so much and for him to say that out of the BLUE that he didn’t feel the same way anymore, hurt very much. He was a good guy It was my fault I feel as if I ruined the relationship. Last time I seen him I begged him back but he resisted and told me this. I’ve cried for him so much already and I’m to the point where I can’t shed any more tears for him, although I do still love him A month went by and My ex recently called me last Thursday telling me that he was thinking of me because he had passed by the beach and remembered a good funny memory that we had there. I was confused as to why he was telling me this. He even said that he was really nervous to call me, that he didn’t know how I would react to his call. We spoke for an hour and we made friendly conversations. He nor I brought up the past. I was happy to talk to him again and I don’t know if he was. As we were into the conversation there was a long pause between him and I and I couldn’t help myself from asking him if he wanted to go out to dinner sometime and I thought he was going to say no but he said yes that he is waiting for his ATM to arrive in the mail because he had lost it. I have not spoken to him nor do I want to call him. I don’t know what to think anymore, he didn’t mention that he misses me or anything and I didn’t either but I’m very confused now. I know I should not get my hopes up but I just love him dearly and don’t know if I made a mistake by answering the phone and asking him to go out to dinner. What could be going through his head. Can you give me advise and tell me if I did wrong and what could he be thinking and why he called me. Has anyone ever gone through this? I have a feeling he wont call me back, do you guys think I scared him away?
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