mika Posted July 7, 2006 Posted July 7, 2006 okay, i know that everyone sees beautiful people all the time. i see them and my boyfriend sees them. the problem i have is that he follows them as they walk passed or he turns to look while i am right next to him. okay this bothers me because for one it's just plain rude. two, it makes me look bad. three, it opens a door for bad things. to me it's okay to acknowledge another persons beauty but if you give too much attention then you may just be drawing too much attention. and i may over analyze when i think to myself okay what if that chic he keeps looking at thinks we're just friends or something and then i go to the bathroom and she introduces herself and he is just so thrilled by her interest he lies and gets her number? anyway, the main point is that it bothers me soooo bad! i'm standing right next to you and you are all over her (visually/mentally, however). what can i say to help him understand that it is disrespectful to me weather he thinks it's harmless or not? or am i just an idiot for caring?
Buttaflyy Posted July 7, 2006 Posted July 7, 2006 You are absolutely right that he is being very disrespectful to you. He can admire whomever he wants, secretely. When he's catchin whip lash and all... he is totally out of line! I'm sure he wouldn't like it if you did it. I hate when men do that with their women on their arms. It's disgusting. He should care more about your feelings and if he does, he'll respect you. He should make you feel like no matter what you're always the finest lady in the room. I wouldn't trust a man like this.
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