footynut Posted July 7, 2006 Posted July 7, 2006 my best friend has been goin out wid this girl 4 about 3 month and enyway in the last month ive been getin 2 no her very well n shes been flirtin wid me a lot like lookin at me smilein touchin me every time im practily near her i got 2 no her that much i thinck im in love wid her everytime i see her everything goes right n clear 2 me its like my soul is attracked 2 her / and i fink 2 my self its not all about a sexiaul attrackion its about the way i feal about her, every joke i do even if it ant funny she laugths at me i really do love this girl :love: and i fink she finks the same way but its just shes out of bounds wot should i do tell her how i feal or just lieve it or well i dont no plz help
lovestruck234 Posted July 7, 2006 Posted July 7, 2006 Eeeeek, you silly silly boy! Lol I know these are the last words your going to want to hear BUT.... She IS out of bounds. Put yourself in your best friends shoes...hmmm...you wouldn't like it if he did that to you. And especially 3 months into the realtionship. They're obviously getting quite involved. If I were you, I would be feeling the same, but coming from a girls point of you, and being in the same sort of situation myself, you are, without knowing it, confusing her... I was once with a guy, and another guy from school was msging me and telling me how much he regrets not doing anything with me while I was single and that he has feelings for me. He was always telling me how hot I was and that he wishes he could have me blah blah blah. I was sooo confused and although it was only about a month into the realtionship I was having with this other guy, I was starting to have feelings for this guy. I would msg him back and at first I was starting to have really strong feelings for him, telling him I felt the same. Then about a month later, I was like "WTF am I doing?? I am hurting my bf and this guy has never shown any interest in me up until now!" I realise your situation is different but this is sometimes how girls handle it. Hey, this girl probably really is interested in you, but she could also just be confused, THEN AGAIN, she could also just be REEEALLy friendly...lol I guess you need to decide what you think is best. Are you prepared to take the lunge and possibly ruin your friendship with your best mate, or leave it and let the lust die down for a while? If I was you, I would take option 2 and just hang back and see how things turn out, cos right now, you both could just be overwhelmed with feelings and both confused.... That's just my 2 cents... All the best!
Author footynut Posted July 7, 2006 Author Posted July 7, 2006 ty 4 ur help ur advise will be gr8 i furt about it n i cant do that 2 a m8 that i go 2 nearly every liverpl game with no girl should come between a friendship so pure so ty xxxxxxxxxxxxx:D :D
Author footynut Posted July 7, 2006 Author Posted July 7, 2006 this girl has invited me to go n get pissed with her today, but i dont wot 2 do should i or should i not, somethings tellin me not 2 tho cuz we might get that drunk, that we might get it on wid each other, im confused :confused:
FaithyBabe Posted July 7, 2006 Posted July 7, 2006 this girl has invited me to go n get pissed with her today, but i dont wot 2 do should i or should i not, somethings tellin me not 2 tho cuz we might get that drunk, that we might get it on wid each other, im confused :confused: Sometimes its OK sometimes its not If there is marraige and babies involved stay away otherwise what the worry really ? you can always walk away and learn a lesson if there isnt marriage and long term commitment involved, but if babies ect are involved I say stay away good luck dude
2sunny Posted July 7, 2006 Posted July 7, 2006 This is NOT text messaging! To read your post is very frustrating...type in plain english - using WHOLE and complete sentences... And NO - don't go out with her - you know it will only lead to something that will hurt your friendship... would you want HIM to hurt YOU that way? No girl is worth it....
Author footynut Posted July 7, 2006 Author Posted July 7, 2006 soz lad but i cant help it its just the way i am
lovestruck234 Posted July 10, 2006 Posted July 10, 2006 G'day, So how did it go? Did you end up going with her?? Look, ok, here's my 2 cents... You're right, NO girl is worth breaking you and your mate up. You sound like your pretty good mates with this guy so don't ruin it. ALTHOUGH, on the other hand, I also agree with Faithybabe, sometimes little flings / "crushes" if you will, seem like a really big deal at the tim, but yeah, you always end up learning a lesson from it.... I guess whe it all comes down to it, I'm not in the situation at hand so I wouldn't really know how to tell it to you straight. Just do what feels right. Sometimes your head fails and you got to go with your heart, sometimes vice versa! best of luck! Let me know how you go... Ps: It IS kinda annoying trying to figure out what your words mean. Try and use a whole word if you can, that way we won't have this confusion.
FaithyBabe Posted July 13, 2006 Posted July 13, 2006 G'day, So how did it go? Did you end up going with her?? Look, ok, here's my 2 cents... You're right, NO girl is worth breaking you and your mate up. You sound like your pretty good mates with this guy so don't ruin it. ALTHOUGH, on the other hand, I also agree with Faithybabe, sometimes little flings / "crushes" if you will, seem like a really big deal at the tim, but yeah, you always end up learning a lesson from it.... I guess whe it all comes down to it, I'm not in the situation at hand so I wouldn't really know how to tell it to you straight. Just do what feels right. Sometimes your head fails and you got to go with your heart, sometimes vice versa! best of luck! Let me know how you go... Ps: It IS kinda annoying trying to figure out what your words mean. Try and use a whole word if you can, that way we won't have this confusion. Yeah Footynut, do try to use proper sentences, it makes it easier to decipher. HOW DID U GO ? Lovestruck, aint it grand being young?
lovestruck234 Posted July 13, 2006 Posted July 13, 2006 Yeah Footynut, do try to use proper sentences, it makes it easier to decipher. HOW DID U GO ? Lovestruck, aint it grand being young? ...
Author footynut Posted September 10, 2006 Author Posted September 10, 2006 hi well i left it 4 a bit and me m8 has moved away so u no im wid her now 4 2 week and its been awsum if u no wot i meen done everythinck n i fink i do actually love her n cant w8 2 see her tonight
Guest Posted September 11, 2006 Posted September 11, 2006 well u got ur girl and u lost ur mate 4 life, exact same thing just happend to me like 3 days ago cuz im a effing idiot and i now have no "mate" anymore u should have took 2sunny advice, i am now f'd for life im doing my best to let everybody know not to do this it will not work out
lovestruck234 Posted September 11, 2006 Posted September 11, 2006 hi well i left it 4 a bit and me m8 has moved away so u no im wid her now 4 2 week and its been awsum if u no wot i meen done everythinck n i fink i do actually love her n cant w8 2 see her tonight Hmmm....well, I guess it was your choice... Me? Mates before dates. I think my friends would come first if I was in this situation. It was up to you....but really? How long have you been mates with this guy? Compared to how long you have known this girl? I had a bad situation like this not long ago. A bit different but I had a bit of a crush on my bf's best friend. It was infatuation and I am so glad I didn't let it get a hold of me or I let it mess with my head and I took it the wrong way, cos I am sooooo lucky to have the bf that I have and this guy turned out to be not so perfect after all! Now I am still great friends, like I was before, with him, but all those swooning feelings are gone...and I'm glad. The people I know will always be hanging aroung and will always be there are NOT the ones I have little week-long crushes on...they're the ones that have been there all my life. I was not prepared to throw away what I have with my bf, he is just TOO important in my life to have waste on just another boy... My family and the ones I truly lobe and care for are the ones I would choose first ANYDAY.
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