Its only fair RIGHT?

[KunFuZed]

OK Last year around this same time I had a "friend" that I was messing/ sleeping with and unknown to my knowledge he wanted to mess with one of my female "friends" and she wanted to mess with too, she came and told me how she felt about him and wanted to see where they could go and I told her that I didn't care when I really did. But they had already started messing around behind my back and when I found out about that I left both of them alone and went on a one month vacation to get away from them. After about 8 or 9 months went by I forgave the girl and we became friends again. Now this year that same girl's ex boyfriend wants to hook up with me and shes upset about it to the point where I think she wants to fight me. I really like the guy so I'm not sleeping with him or doing anything with him just to get her back for what she did to me. But I'm looking at it like why should she be angry, its called karma. She did the same thing to me and not only to me but to her best friend and 2 other girls that she was "friends" with she slept with their men too, and with one of the other girls it was two of her men, but she wasn't woman enough to tell them. Also her and her ex has been broken up for more than 1 year now. So why should she be angry? Its only fair Right?

[newbby]

you should do what you do because you are happy with it, not do what you do because somebody else did it. it seems as though you are using this to justify it, yet does it need justification anyway? obviously your friend is upset about it, so perhaps there is a way of dealing with the whole situation that will minimise the pain for her, without involving you giving up something that will make you happy.

[bunset]

Actually it sounds like you only want to get involved with this guy to get her back...

That doesn't sound good.

But if you really want to see this guy, you have to weigh the consequences..

Is it worth losing this girlfriend?