jdub Posted July 6, 2006 Posted July 6, 2006 Hi, Have been seeing this girl for a couple weeks now and we get along great, but the dates are always cut off so short. I'm used to 'hanging out' and fooling around/making out for at least a little while before the date ends but she always says she has to start work early the next day so has to go. I always get a good-bye kiss but not much else. Everything seems to be going great otherwise, she plans ahead and yeah... but I just dunno, I'd personally hang around for ages even if I had to work early if I liked someone, which is why I'm thinking she might not? Any thoughts? Thankyou
ashnicole Posted July 6, 2006 Posted July 6, 2006 Maybe she just doesn't want to go that far with you yet? Maybe she knows she has to be responsible, so she goes home so that she can get up for work the next morning? Don't read so much into it... especially this early on.
john1776 Posted July 6, 2006 Posted July 6, 2006 Yeah don't read too much into it. The fact that she's ending the dates quickly because she has to get up early for work the next morning is a good thing. I prefer to date women who are responsible.
Guest Posted July 6, 2006 Posted July 6, 2006 sounds to me like she's playing games... doesn't "the rules" say something about leaving your date wanting more?
scrybe74 Posted July 6, 2006 Posted July 6, 2006 I wouldn't think about it so much this early on. Give it a few more weeks and if things aren't moving along......just do a self check. Are you tired of waiting? Is she starting to get annoying? Is she not so cute anymore? Some girls I've dated...it took a few weeks before I felt secure about their interest in me. One girl.....took a whole year (long story....highschool stuff). But basically...my rule of thumb is to wait as long as it takes - but when I start to get irritable and grouchy....it's time to back off and move on. And it all depends on the girl, her attitude, how much I'm attracted to her, etc. Sometimes your attracted to someone but your not sure how much. Sometimes you meet someone and you are head over heels right away. If she's in the first category....wait....but not too long. If she's in the second....wait longer.
ashnicole Posted July 7, 2006 Posted July 7, 2006 sounds to me like she's playing games... doesn't "the rules" say something about leaving your date wanting more? If it came down to my job, or sex... I'd go with my job, sorry. And you're damn right I'd leave him wanting more if it's only the 3rd date anyway. I don't sleep with someone that soon. My boyfriends lucky, he didn't have to wait very long, considering I normally make them wait a few months. He lucked out on that one... but I think it shows that she's very responsible, to go home early, so that she can get up and go to work.
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