Author crazy4taz Posted July 9, 2006 Author Posted July 9, 2006 to KnowHowLoveFeels....Thank you...I am so happy there is someone in a similar circumstance as me. I knew I couldn't be alone. When I look at my children and how wonderful they are I know I am doing the right thing !!!
Author crazy4taz Posted July 9, 2006 Author Posted July 9, 2006 Aaarg! The things we do for our men!! Silktricks, you sound like a great wife. Your husband is very lucky indeed. Actually, I was like that too. I said "was" because I'm no longer like that. If he needs a gift or needs to apologize to someone, I don't get the gifts for him or write his apology letters any more. Me too...but not anymore...I used to send his Mother...cards, make sure he calls his family...but I stopped. He is my fifth child !!!
silktricks Posted July 9, 2006 Posted July 9, 2006 What kind of gift did you get her ?? I'm confused as to why you did that I bought her a very pretty set of crystal candlesticks. I did it because it was obvious that she was going to be hurt quite badly, and it bothered me that she would be in pain. In all honesty, if I had it to do again, there is no way that I would do it. She had no honor, and kept after my husband, e-mailing him until he had to close his business account, and calling us (anonymously of course) until we had to change our phone number. I had a hard time getting over his deception (as well as a few other truly terrible things that happened in my life at the same time). She made the healing process much more difficult by her constant aggravating behavior.
Author crazy4taz Posted July 9, 2006 Author Posted July 9, 2006 I bought her a very pretty set of crystal candlesticks. I did it because it was obvious that she was going to be hurt quite badly, and it bothered me that she would be in pain. In all honesty, if I had it to do again, there is no way that I would do it. She had no honor, and kept after my husband, e-mailing him until he had to close his business account, and calling us (anonymously of course) until we had to change our phone number. I had a hard time getting over his deception (as well as a few other truly terrible things that happened in my life at the same time). She made the healing process much more difficult by her constant aggravating behavior. I wouldn't do it either..you are a kind person. Are you sure your H was clear with her on ending it...the reason I say that is because I truly begged my EA to end it with me but he wouldn't or couldn't... I don't know which and I couldn't either, and we've tried believe me. He tells his W it's a rare occurence that we email/chat. As I care about my H, he does care for his W as well.
silktricks Posted July 9, 2006 Posted July 9, 2006 Are you sure your H was clear with her on ending it. As I said, I was on the extension (at his insistence I might add). Yes, he was totally clear.
Author crazy4taz Posted July 9, 2006 Author Posted July 9, 2006 As I said, I was on the extension (at his insistence I might add). Yes, he was totally clear. I am glad he wanted you to listen-in and I am also glad you have forgiven both of them and have moved forward....Kudos' to you both !!!
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