Guest Posted July 6, 2006 Posted July 6, 2006 Ok, well the thing is, in the past, i've fallen in love with one of my good friends (who's a girl), and i told them how i felt, but then after this, we'd just stop talking to eachother and feel awkward whenever we're together anywhere, and well, now, i met another girl at school, we've been friends for at least 6 months, and we talk to eachother a lot and stuff, sometimes go out to see a movie or go play some sports, but im not sure whether i should tell her how i feel or not, becuase i don't want it ending up like the last time, but then what if she's waiting for me to make a move, and then over time she'll just get used to us being friends and that's it. what should i do? plz reply
magichands Posted July 6, 2006 Posted July 6, 2006 Well, last time the talking thing didn't work - how about this time you move in for a kiss, and if that doesn't work you have a better idea of where things stand. But seriously now, hopefully you will get some more sensible suggestions. Do you feel the chemistry?
NTT148 Posted July 8, 2006 Posted July 8, 2006 actually, yeah i'm pretty sure there's something between us, but then soemtimes there's nothing
nickelinadime Posted July 8, 2006 Posted July 8, 2006 Its ultimately up to you. Do you think it would end up like your last try? I have a really good friend who just happens to be a girl, and I fell for her. I told her through a poem, cuz im good at them, and she just said it was cute. She's been really shy around me since, cuz i think their might be something there. It all depends on the person, are you good enough to analize a person and see how they will re-act? I analized the girl that i fell for and realized that we would still be friends after i told her, so i told her. If she is the type who would get wierded out, then she obviously isnt a good enough friend to put it behind her and keep a friendship going, although for certain people, having a friend love them, and still be friends is way to much for them to handle. You need to look at her and decide if she didnt feel the same way, how would she react and would she still wanna be friends? My oppinion when it comes to telling friends how u feel, they deserve to know, if they dont wanna be friends its their choice.
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