Guest Posted July 6, 2006 Posted July 6, 2006 My ex broke up with me about 4 weeks ago. I did the usual begging and pleading for about a week and then realized that it's not going to change her mind. I decided not to contact her any more so she has her space. In the 2.5 weeks I haven't spoken to her, I've thought about her every second of the day and each day has been like an year I thought I was making good progress at no contact, and imagined she would call me one day soon. Then I find out that my sister had tried to call her last week and my mom called her mom "to chat". F-U-C-K!!! She didn't answer my sister's call, and my sister and mom were part of the reason she broke up with me in the first place. I'm so screwed now, I might as well forget her and get on with my life. All the torture I went through not contacting her turned into a wasted effort thanks to my over zealous sister and mom who thought they could patch us up. There's probably nothing I can do at this point, except say that I didn't know they were going to do this and they didn't even tell me this until I forced it out of them. If it wasn't for them, she might have even called me by now. I'm so pissed. Anyway, just wanted to share this story for those in my situation - before you stop contact, make sure that your friends and family aren't going to sneak around behind your back and screw you over. I know I'm doomed, but any suggestions?
MacGyver Posted July 6, 2006 Posted July 6, 2006 What ever you do, DON'T blame your mum or your sister. I'm sure they meant well and were only trying to help Just remember that "You cant choose your family!"
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