BatteredByLove Posted July 6, 2006 Posted July 6, 2006 My ex emailed me on July 3rd... a short and simple email, "Don't do anything stupid tomorrow. Be careful around the fireworks", should I read too much into it? I know I shouldn't overanalyze, but they're the first words i've recieved in well... 6 weeks. We broke up at the end of march and talked till the end of may, and the last time we talked, things didnt end on good terms, but during that 2 month period after the breakup, she DID say that I was "perfect" for her, but one day during the end of may, I blew, I felt like she was stringing me along, and I told her I hated her for her stubborness, and then she told me not to call her or anything, well, being stupid like I did, I called her the next week, she didnt pick up, then, after that week, I initiated NC, lasted for a month, until I went to her hosue... she went outside, didnt say a word, and went back in, then I started NC again, and it's been a week, and here we are with the email. Is she slowly realizing something? Does she cares about me? I don't know if you guys have had emails like this, any insights would be a blessing to me.
Author BatteredByLove Posted July 6, 2006 Author Posted July 6, 2006 Lol, she just knows me for being stupid a lotta times... .
Yamaha Posted July 6, 2006 Posted July 6, 2006 Time will tell. I would continue with NC and see if her contacts increase. Make her think you are doing well without her and she may start to miss you. She may also be acting friendly so you will only know if she tells you she wants to get back together. I would continue your life as if she is out of the picture and if it happens, great or not.
toonicegirl Posted July 6, 2006 Posted July 6, 2006 2 months after break up and 1.5 months of nc he sent me a message on myspace that he likes my new pics and started commenting my blogs...so i guess similar situation to yours... people that posted on my thread (titled:his reading my blogs) are saying that he still thinks about me and cares about me...we'll see i hope she will come back if you want it... sometimes i'm not quite sure if i want him back or if i want him to want me back
Author BatteredByLove Posted July 6, 2006 Author Posted July 6, 2006 Time will tell. I would continue with NC and see if her contacts increase. Make her think you are doing well without her and she may start to miss you. She may also be acting friendly so you will only know if she tells you she wants to get back together. I would continue your life as if she is out of the picture and if it happens, great or not. Yeah, I was panicking and freaking out when it happened, but reading the threads on LS sure calmed my nerves down a bit, thanks, you're right Yamaha, NC.
Author BatteredByLove Posted July 6, 2006 Author Posted July 6, 2006 2 months after break up and 1.5 months of nc he sent me a message on myspace that he likes my new pics and started commenting my blogs...so i guess similar situation to yours... people that posted on my thread (titled:his reading my blogs) are saying that he still thinks about me and cares about me...we'll see i hope she will come back if you want it... sometimes i'm not quite sure if i want him back or if i want him to want me back Hhehehe, yep yep yep, I've read your thread toonicegirl. I get that thought sometimes, do I WANT her back? Really confusing world, I hope that old bloke upstairs would stop messing with our emotions . Yeah, my situation is sorta like yours, hehehhee, I almost broke NC when I read that email, but... reading the threads on LS sure helped me , hehhee, what you're going through is normal, we're pratically in the same situation .
toonicegirl Posted July 6, 2006 Posted July 6, 2006 the only reason i think about trying one more time is that before timing wasnt right...we were together not too long ( 6 months)... but a lot of things worked against us... we both were always tired and didnt have much time... in addition long winter made everybody a little depressed... i want him to want me back, to hurt this girl maybe...i want us to try again to see how would it look like in different circumstances...
Author BatteredByLove Posted July 6, 2006 Author Posted July 6, 2006 Be strong toonicegirl, keep NC, he's definitely still thinking about you if he comments on your blog, just stay strong and keep up the NC.
toonicegirl Posted July 7, 2006 Posted July 7, 2006 Be strong toonicegirl, keep NC, he's definitely still thinking about you if he comments on your blog, just stay strong and keep up the NC. im not staying in NC like all the time now...when he commented my blogs i sent him responds (not the same day though)... last time we had myspace "contact" a week ago... im doing my things and im not really stressed out anymore....i know im in a better position cause he thinks about me... i dont need to keep myself busy so i dont have to think about him...i moved on...not in 100% yet, but it doesnt hurt that much....right now it's like a game... i'm a player in this game too... i want to see his next move, that's why im not doing anything now...i already know that he thinks about me, so i dont need to remind him about me... i dont know if all this have sens to you, but i am strong even though im responding
Author BatteredByLove Posted July 7, 2006 Author Posted July 7, 2006 I get what you mean toonicegirl, but NC isnt really a game. It's just a way of coping, it lets you take a step back and get an overview of the situation, lets you find out who you are and what do you want, and who the other person really is. If he did care about you then why did he choose to go out with this other girl? Rebound perhaps? Or is he just playing you, if I were you, I'd continue NC, dont reply to his myspace, and if he really does care for you, he'll keep on continuing to leave comments, that's hwo I see it, but only YOU know what's best for yourself, so best of luck .
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