JohnHesse Posted July 5, 2006 Posted July 5, 2006 My ex gf who broke up with me about two months ago, with about a month of nc since emailed emailed me yesterday, the day before her birthday. she just said she was wondering how i've been and what ive been up to etc. i sent back a quick note on her birthday just to say im doing well and wish her a happy bday. she wrote back that her life is going pretty well, and some details about what she's been doing, saying she's been playing squash, which is something we used to do together. I'm not sure where to take it from here....should i respond? there's a little part of me that still wants her back. I'm not sure why she's contacting me, maybe to get me to acknowledge her birthday which i did. but beyond that, is she just curious about how my life is going? should i respond to her last email?
westernxer Posted July 5, 2006 Posted July 5, 2006 should i respond to her last email? Nope. It's just a waste of time.
sirjay Posted July 5, 2006 Posted July 5, 2006 Do what feels right for you. You know her, no one else here does. There may or may not be more to it - if you are prepared to risk some more pain and a setback to find out then you should go for it. People change their minds and get back together all the time. Sometimes breaking NC can lead to that, sometimes not. There are no rules despite what people try to say. People are complex.
spinnelli Posted July 5, 2006 Posted July 5, 2006 Love is risky, it involves making yourself vulnerable, and it involves "set-backs". Do what your heart tells you. Just don't expect any big dramatic changes. She may genuinely be emailing just to say hello and nothing more b
spinnelli Posted July 5, 2006 Posted July 5, 2006 Love is risky, it involves making yourself vulnerable, and it involves "set-backs". Do what your heart tells you. Just don't expect any big dramatic changes. She may genuinely be emailing just to say hello and nothing more but if you want her back, then you gotta put yourself out there, regardless of her actions or intentions
toonicegirl Posted July 6, 2006 Posted July 6, 2006 i dont think everything in her life is going well cause she's contacting you
gfto Posted July 6, 2006 Posted July 6, 2006 she just said she was wondering how i've been and what ive been up to etc. i sent back a quick note on her birthday just to say im doing well and wish her a happy bday. You should've thrown in that you've been a little stressed because you're dating two girls and they're practically fighting over you. should i respond to her last email? No.
magichands Posted July 6, 2006 Posted July 6, 2006 You should've thrown in that you've been a little stressed because you're dating two girls and they're practically fighting over you. That's brilliant!!!! Wicked, but brilliant. Then you could say that you shouldn't complain, at least it's better than no attention, but it's wearing you out, and your balls feel like someone has been playing squash with them - and then that will tie in perfectly with saying, "That reminds me... how about a game sometime?"
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