Jadey Posted July 5, 2006 Posted July 5, 2006 Hey you guys. I wasn't quite sure whereabouts to put this, so I just put it here. Okay, well, here is my problem. I am in a long distance relationship, he lives in Scotland, me in England. We talk on the phone around 2 times a week, for about 2-3 hours, and we speak on IM everyday, for hours. I love him to bits, and he says he loves me to bits too. But I have a big problem with jealousy and insercurity. I always worry about him watching porn, or looking/flirting with other girls, etc, etc. I worry about it all the time and it really hurts me. Well, I ask him if he does these things, and ask for reasurance. He has had enough. A few days ago he told me it was over because he couldn't stand it anymore and he just couldn't deal with my jealousy and being accused of something he doesn't do,a nd me not trusting him. But I just can't help it. If he takes a while to answer back, I automatically think he must be watching Porn or something, and it's putting a huge stress on our relathionship. I also have anxiety problems, as he does too, and I'm getting help with those. I am on Prosac and I seek professional help. (CBT.) But I just can't seem to stop these obsessins. Now, for a few days he was totally ignoring me, I was beggin for another chance, saying how I promise things will be different. Eventually he came onto AIM, and spoke to me. Now we have been talking again for a few days, but things are still pretty crap. He got REALLY angry with me last night, saying how he actually hates what I done to him, and he infact really dislike me right now. We had a time we were going to meet up, around October time, but now he's saying he needs a few days to get his head straight, he doesn't know what he wants. He says that He doesn't really like me at the moment, but he feels he still wants to talk to me, and the thought of me moving on and being with anybody else "kills him". When I said I love him, he said he "can't go back to talking like that again just yet" and just keeps saying "give me a few days to get my head straight" I dunno what to do anymore. I feel really unloved. What is going on here? I'm confused as to where I stand...URGH. What should I do? Thanks in advance" .
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