sugarcane05 Posted July 5, 2006 Share Posted July 5, 2006 Okay so here's the story, my ex and I broke up last Tuesday, to make that part of the story short, he broke up with me because he wanted to be single. he said "he's had a girlfriend for the past 4 years" (i've been with him for two. he said He wanted to do his own thing. This guy just moved out of his parents house soI"m thinking there may be some freedom deals there. Okay so he was sweet and told me he still wanted to be friends. Later that night we were talking and he said he wasn't going to tell his parents because they are out of town and if we were back together in a couple of weeks he wouldn't want to explain. So we pretty much talked everyday. On Wed. he was texting me telling me the status on his halo game which he would normally never do. Then thursday i asked him to a movie it was akward at first but the movie was good however it made me miss him whenever he left. That night he noticed a change in my perfume that wasn't the kind he bought me for my birthday and noticed a changed the ring he gave me to another one that I had. (don't know if that's important or not.) Then we talked quite a while on Saturday and he was like "we just need some time apart"... does that mean he wants to get back together eventually? Before we broke up we planned this float trip with a bunch of mutual friends. we still went yesterday and we ended up riding together in his car. at first he was kind of ignoring me but for about 2-3 hours of the five hour trip we floated together. We were bungied together and just talked. I tried to talk to him about what was going on but he didn't really talk much about that. That night I went over to his house to shoot off fireworks with a bunch of friends and he was really nice to me. it was just like old times minus the hugging and kissing. His friends all tell me they think we're gonna get back together that they just think it's a break. He walked me out last night and i hugged him and said " I really miss you" he was just llike i know. and then asked me if I would be at his game the next day. I told him i would and I haven't talked to him since. And I have his game tonight. so I don't know what to think He's so private with his feelings I"m so confused on waht he wants. someone please help me to know what's going on???????? Link to post Share on other sites
Guest06 Posted July 9, 2006 Share Posted July 9, 2006 he still wants his space but at the same time i think he's afraid of losing you for good...which would explain why he's so wishy-washy about his feelings. he could be having some sort of crisis, where he's afraid of committing and not being able to explore the world and experience and see things. i think the best way is NC for a few days. leave him be so he'll have time to think about what he wants in his life...i know it will be hard for you not to contact him because you might be afraid that he'll somehow move on with his life in the short time period...but really, if he really wants you he'll let you know. Link to post Share on other sites
Author sugarcane05 Posted July 10, 2006 Author Share Posted July 10, 2006 thanks that helps a lot! yesterday I talked to him and he was like I think you should move on, and if we get back together good and if we don't you won't be dissappointed so I think I"m just gonna concentrate on moving on without him. should i wait for him to contact me then? and if i should will he contact me? Link to post Share on other sites
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