ashnicole Posted July 7, 2006 Posted July 7, 2006 ashnicole, see the "i trust him but....." new thread...it describes waht is going on now...getting a little better but he's still going too far if you ask me i'm planning on sitting back and seeing what he does and that wayi will get the total truth, if i ask him he may start hiding things or denying...i get a full view of the action and the honest action since he knows i don't ahve his password. i get the true thing...obviously not sugar coated...see the other thread i have Sounds to me like he wants to meet up with this girl. That right there, would be enough for me to leave him.
ashnicole Posted July 7, 2006 Posted July 7, 2006 Sounds to me like he wants to meet up with this girl. That right there, would be enough for me to leave him. Of course, I would probably wait until he actually did it. I'd keep reading his messages, find out when/where they're going to meet... and when he makes plans to go out with the "boys" and actually goes out with her... it's over. But that's just me, I guess. I don't handle cheating very well... and obviously if it's not something that he is willing to share with you, and let you know what's going on... then there are other intentions there, from one or both parties.
Author jessssss Posted July 7, 2006 Author Posted July 7, 2006 i totally agree with you, i am going to watch this like a hawk and see if he does meet up or tell me he's "working late" or something of that nature...then i will know...hell, i could even go see if he does meet her somewhere...i'm not leaving him unless he does actually cheat, he just seems to be backing off since this morning, just get hte feeling like he knows he shouldn't be doing this. so i'm going to watch everythign and IF he even exchanges numbers i'm telling him i saw his comments and then he willk now he's busted. i do not put up with cheating either. especially something liek this. maybe he coudl have been doing this for an ego boost, who knows. i guess i'll know sooner or later how trustworthy he is and if he's going to be unfaithful...i just feel if i say somethign to him now that he will hide thigns and he will try to cover his ass. now i get to sit back and see every single thing, he has no reason to hide anything cause he doesn't know i have his info. i hate to do this but i feel like i have to. to prove to myself.
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