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How long would you wait to have sex with a girl you liked? How many dates, say you are seeing her once a week? Say she told you she didn't feel comfortable yet and needed you to be patient..how long would you wait?

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Doggone ageism! I guess men in their 50s and 60s don't count! ;) And yet we're probably the more patient ones.

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Doggone ageism! I guess men in their 50s and 60s don't count! ;) And yet we're probably the more patient ones.

 

Yeah! I agree!!!! I mean, you were in your 30s and 40s once, right?

 

I say either until we are married, or until six weeks has passed from our first date - whichever is the sooner. :love::bunny:

 

But the right answer is, of course, "Depends."

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How long would you wait to have sex with a girl you liked? How many dates, say you are seeing her once a week? Say she told you she didn't feel comfortable yet and needed you to be patient..how long would you wait?

 

I had waited 1 month after the first date for some and some the woman would just do it after 3 dates which could be within the first two weeks.

 

I've learned that patience is a virtue from one ex and had to be patient. Guess it was a test or foolishness. The reward was her. :D

 

The above happened in my twenties and I am still going thru the 30's.

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Doggone ageism! I guess men in their 50s and 60s don't count! ;) And yet we're probably the more patient ones.

probably cause guys your age can't get it up anyways :laugh:

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How long would you wait to have sex with a girl you liked? How many dates, say you are seeing her once a week? Say she told you she didn't feel comfortable yet and needed you to be patient..how long would you wait?

 

If I'm only seeing her once a week, I'd probably wait up to two to three months. At this age, I'm busy so many other things, that it's not really a priority that my new date starts giving it up.

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It depends entirley on the situation.

 

I just go with the flow.

 

No rules or situational guidelines for me.

 

Over the years it has varied from a month to the first date, with no indication of which is better.

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would you say a guy that is not willing to wait more than a month or so is onlly seeing a girl for sex?

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would you say a guy that is not willing to wait more than a month or so is onlly seeing a girl for sex?

 

Not necessarily - just impatient. But that sort of attitude hardly makes a girl feel special. Not to mention pressured!

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Doggone ageism! I guess men in their 50s and 60s don't count! ;) And yet we're probably the more patient ones.

 

probably cause guys your age can't get it up anyways :laugh:

 

ALPHA!

 

Knock it off! C=Lion is a wonderful man!

 

Just because you still act like a little boy doesn't mean you should be so disrespectful!

 

Be Nice!

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Wait for sex? hmm..... never.

 

Looks like I can post without signing in as long as I enter the six digits....

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