BatteredByLove Posted July 5, 2006 Posted July 5, 2006 I've posted here before about my situation, my gf and I broke up a few months back, kept contact for a few months, and then things just went bad... One day... I just... blew, I blew because she would say that I was the perfect guy for her, just that we fight a lot, and that we should work on that, and after a few days, she'd act differently. Well one day I just went I hate you for your stubborness because she truly is indeed stubborn, then she told me to nto call her anymore, not keep in contact with her anymore, etc, then I went and told her that I can't control myself for the things taht I do, and that I WILL call her, maybe once a day, or once a week, w/e, then I told her NOT to reply to my emails, my ims, my phone calls, everything, it's for the best that way, well that was May 28th. I called her a few times the first week, but after that, I did NC, until a week ago that I went to her house... but to no avail, she said nothing and went back in, well yesterday, she emailed me saying, "Don't do anything stupid tomorrow. Be careful around the fireworks.", I think I'm in a bit of denial here, probably cause she was my first love, and yes.. .first loves are always the hardest to get through, ugh. But does that mean she still cares about me? Just taht her stubborn attitude is getting in the way, she is pretty immature. To this day(we broke up at the end of march), she is still single, doesnt date anybody or anything, and is her emailing me means something? After I told her not to email me or anything? God, Im so confused.
Craig Posted July 5, 2006 Posted July 5, 2006 It doesn't mean a thing that she emailed you. You're searching hard for signs that there is a chance with her. Stop it. If she wants to be with you then she'll make it clear to you. But why would you want to be with an "immature" and "stubborn" girl at all. Maintain NC, keep yourself busy with healthy pursuits and know that the confusion, the pain, the wondering, the questioning, the what if'ing, etc. are all part of the process of healing and moving on.
Author BatteredByLove Posted July 5, 2006 Author Posted July 5, 2006 Wow, short and simple Craig, great advice man , I'm just reading too much into it, heh. Yeah, if she wants to be with me, she'll contact me again, and again, your short and simple post has really rejuvinated my mind. Thanks.
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